Celebrating Allie

Guess Who is Almost 4...

2011-11-14T21:48:00.000-06:00

and is on the Move?

Yep... My Girl!

She is growing so fast I can't keep up!

Hi everyone! I'll be 4 years old on Saturday! Can you Believe it?!?

Have cake and ice cream for me at your house!

Mommy says you have to raise your spoon and toast me!

Make a wish for me, too. Why not?!

Have a wonderful week everyone!

Our 4th Buddy Walk is Sunday!

2011-10-12T21:50:00.000-05:00

Wow! Can you believe it? This will be the fourth time we've been to a Buddy Walk and that means that Allie is ALMOST 4 years old!!! Time is really going by too fast. And this year seems to have flown past faster than all the rest. We have been so busy we haven't been able to update this blog much at all! It is not for lack of progress on Allie's part, that if FOR SURE! As the busy Mommy, I'm going to have to find a way to work this into my schedule. But, before another minute went by I wanted to invite you all to come out to our Buddy Walk on Sunday. We'd love to have you walk with us! I know many of you live far away and we understand if you can't make it. We ask that you spread the word about Down Syndrome (and really all special needs individuals).These people are wonderful and individual just like everyone else. They want the same things we all want - to be loved, to be included, to have friends, to work, to support themselves and to be treated equally. Oh, and in Allie's case - to move and never stop dancing.

This little girl is a mover and a shaker. We chase her everywhere. She has so much energy and clearly God gave her self-recharging batteries. She is such a blessing to us. I don't think a day goes by we don't say how lucky we are or how cute she is or "look.. isn't she adorable". Yes, we know this type of spoiling will probably haunt us, but she really is just that cute!! She is also very sweet. Oh, don't get me wrong. She is 3 1/2 and she loves to test people and she is all into her doing it her way (right or wrong). But, she is perfectly her and perfectly 3 1/2 and anyone that has had a 3 1/2 year old knows that when I say that I mean it... doesn't mean we don't get exhausted, but we go to sleep very happy and counting our blessings. She is one terrific little girl.

If you haven't given to a charity this year and just wondering where to send that small or large donation (I truly believe that if everyone would share small amounts, it would all add up and help so many people), please consider either walking with us or making a donation. To do so go to:

http://www.firstgiving.com/fundraiser/sandy-lovell/allie

to donate, simply click on DONATE. To walk with us, please click on the TEAM tab, then click on GET STARTED then REGISTER. It is that simple and every $5 and $10 donation really adds up and benefits some wonderful programs that will help Allie and all of us for many years.

We hope to see you on Sunday!

Some Days Are Just Hard

2011-08-29T21:31:00.000-05:00

So, I had one of those days. We all have them. We all let them go. We all get over them. Anyone that follows my post or hangs with me knows I don't dwell on things that don't go my way perfectly - or at least I don't think I do. And tonight could have passed without a word about my day, but for some reason I just feel the need to write about it. I'm not sure why, maybe someone needs to hear it or maybe someday I'll need to reread it or maybe I just need to say this, so for whatever reason, here I go.

You all know I love my little Allie. Love her more than words or blogs can ever tell you. I love her for exactly who she is. She is my Angel. I prayed for her for years and years and when God felt I was ready, he blessed me with her and I couldn't be happier. Some days, however, I have a hard day. Today was one of them. You see, as the weekend ended I noticed I didn't get to do enough with her. We didn't "work" on things enough. We didn't do the arts and crafts I had planned, we didn't ever make it to the park and now it was time to go back to work. That brought me down a bit. But, then as I was rocking Allie (after she requested "chair") she tried to convince me to let her watch a movie. Bless her - she showed me every sign that reflected her favorite movies... "signing" "time" "bird" "wind" "movie" and several more and even pointed dramatically to the door. Each time getting the firm reminder it was bedtime. Then, she said and signed eat. I figured she was trying to get me to bring her in the other room so she could watch a movie (I'm telling you, this kid is very smart!) and I said no. But, she continued to say eat, Eat, EAt and then EAT!!! So, I did what any mother of a not yet 25 pound 3 1/2 year old would do... we went to the kitchen to eat. Of course, she paused at the TV and asked for movie, but I was determined she would eat without a movie. I asked her over and over again what she wanted to eat. This is normally a question I can get an answer for - at minimal she will say or sign cracker or cookie. Last night, I just got EAT and movie. It made me a bit sad. Would she ever consistently tell me what she wanted? Would she ever tell me about her day, which friends she played with or what she wanted to do? Of course she would, but as the weekend ended and she could only tell me "eat", I got a bit bummed and convinced myself she was so far behind and now I was going to have to go to work and not even spend time on helping her (okay, pitiful, but that is what "being bummed" is). We fixed that sad moment with several Oreo cookies, and OREO song and some milk. I thought the bummed feeling I had left my body as I hugged my Angel goodnight.

Leaving Allie at school this morning it seemed to creep back up on me and I found myself lost again in "how far behind she was". Sometimes having Allie's classmates come up to me and have a full conversation (okay, 3 year old style) makes me think Allie is even further behind than I thought. One of her classmates saw me and said "Aren't you going to take my picture today?" (yep... I may be over doing the camera a bit). I just started thinking I'm not doing enough, I must work harder, I must learn new ways to teach Allie. I must get her to answer questions and tell me about her day. At work my mind drifted and I found myself doing some Internet searches to learn new ways to teach Allie new things. I found ways to "teach your Down Syndrome child to read", new research studies I could sign up for that would surely keep me on the progressive chart and I did what I normally do when this funk hits me... I called Allie's Speech Therapist, Lynn, and begged for my own therapy session. (half joking of course).

Lynn is amazing to me. While she can tell me that things concern her, too, she can also point out the obvious - the things I notice daily, but in my funk I seemed to forget. She pointed out so many things. We have a new vocabulary program we are starting soon that we are all very excited about. Allie has come so far this year that it is truly remarkable and amazing. In fact, during their Therapy session this very morning they were doing a puzzle and Lynn asked Allie for the "belt" piece. I've never really talked to Allie about belts - despite the few times she has worn one - nor do any of us know the sign, but Allie was able to hand Lynn the belt puzzle. I was a bit surprised. Lynn explained that last week they did this puzzle and Allie was shown the belt piece, she clearly learned it and remembered it since last week. Plus, Lynn told Allie she was cold. What did Allie do? She gave her the 'coat' puzzle piece. Then, I saw the Music Therapist, Rochelle's note and a smile crossed my face.. she has such a wonderful way of describing my daughter's activities so that I feel I'm in the room watching the whole event. She described Allie participating with excitement and purpose. She followed instructions just like the other children. She waited patiently when it wasn't her turn. She danced and played her instrument and sat down when the song told her to. She even fed the pretend pig some pretend food. So, yes, there are some things that are taking longer for us to hear and experience. She can tell me about her day accurately in a few years - just like all little kids do - around the age of 5 (thanks to Lynn I now know that). She will answer my questions when she is ready, but for now, she is so much further than she was just months ago. To add to this, when I picked Allie up, she ran to me just like her buddy, Jack, ran to his Mom. I remember so clearly how I felt that it was taking so long for that to happen and now she has been doing it for so long I nearly forgot it was a goal. I also received another therapist note today and it also commended Allie on so many functional skills. And, one I'm particularly proud of was that Allie "brushed her teeth very well all by herself. She did not require any cues from [the therapist]". Allie and I worked hard on this skill and I'm proud to hear she doesn't need me standing next to her while she does it.

I was reminded today that it is very easy to get caught up in what isn't happening. This can happen at a weak moment, for me it was when I was already sad that I had to go to work and didn't have enough time to do all the things I wanted to do with her. But, I knew I couldn't stay in that emotion for long, and I'm glad I didn't because I might have missed some amazing things that are happening every single day. For example, on the way home as Allie watched her movie she sang the songs out loud and I could understand what she was singing; at dinner tonight, I put Allie's plate in front of her and she saw her favorite mashed potatoes and signed and said "potatoes, please". And as I tucked her into bed after she put her baby doll to sleep by telling her and all the other dolls in her room to "sleep". She then told me "Allie sleep". What a fool I was last night and today to forget that she is telling me what she wants to tell me and she is communicating with me better than ever before. And, yes, there are some words and signs I can't interpret and I feel guilty for not being able to understand her, but there are many more that I can understand. And, when she wraps her arms around my neck and hugs me so tight and smiles and giggles I understand exactly what she is saying. I'm excited about the journey ahead of us and I guess I am reminded that we aren't on my schedule and I should not try to move too fast. We will get there in exactly the perfect time.

We'll Just Wait in the Car

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I like to find fun where I can in the midst of our crazy-busy life. So, sometimes when we need to stop and run into the store, I like to suggest that Lil Bit and I wait in the car. As most of you know - with a 3 year old.. it is sometimes easier to wait in the car anyway. Allie doesn't usually request for us to buy something for her (yet), but I get carried away with showing her everything and then there is the for sure possibility she will want to walk - and touch all the neat things in the store. And then, she will wave at everyone and make a lot of new friends. All of this means that a quick run into the store is anything but quick. So, I like to volunteer to stay in the car when I just don't have the energy. Or, like today when I was in my bathing suit. Sure sign I don't want to go into the store!!

While waiting in the car, Allie and I had a little photo opportunity which resulted in a lot of giggles and loud laughs. I forced her to listen to some semi-country music and we sang and laughed and I snapped pictures which got her giggling even more. I really can't get enough of this little girl and wanted to share our few minutes in the car pictures with you. I can't wait to update you on our swimming pictures from this summer. She has gotten so confident in the water and enjoys being in the pool so much. I'll have to get a movie clip of her as we enter into the YMCA and she sees the pool. Pure joy crosses her face and she gets so excited and signs swim over and over. And, as we leave and drive past the pool, she waves and says bye bye to everyone (or maybe just to the pool?). But, that will have to be another post. This one is all about our time out in the parking lot while Tim ran into the store.

Have a great week everyone!

Life is Fun!!!

Allie is a Butterfly

2011-08-09T20:28:00.000-05:00

First Day as a Butterfly

Hello!!

Well, we've moved on up and are now in the Butterfly Room at school. We jumped right over the Shining Stars room (despite clearly being a "shining star") and became a beautiful Butterfly. We did take a week off between being a Grasshopper and graduating to the Butterfly Room. Allie and I spent a lot of time together and honestly, I was exhausted before the week ended. I know, I tried to do too much with my Sweetie. But, all in all we had fun and I'll upload some pictures and stories of our Mommy/Daughter week hopefully soon. For now, I thought I'd introduce you to her in her new classroom.

Allie and her Daddy in the Butterfly Room

Allie, Tim and I went to meet her teachers a week before she entered her new classroom and she fit right in. During orientation she played with the toys and I was an overexcited Mommy. Daddy was there to make sure Allie had lots of love and attention while I attempted to listen to our new teachers - Ashlyn and Erin. Both who we all like already.

Allie took to cleaning the room and
all the parents during orientation.

First Day after helping the tower to fall.

So, what is Allie doing these days? Here is a bit of an update
* She loves to sing to her DVDs and her CDs.
* She is saying a lot more words
* She is silly, sweet and loves to play with her toys
* Favorite toys
    - Baby Dolls. She is gentle with them as she rocks them and then she flings them across the room.
    - Leap Frog Little Leaps - it works with the DVD player and she has to press buttons to make it
      continue. She likes the Jumping Game most of all.
    - Leap Frog Word Jammer - She loves to play with the ABCs (yep! She knows them all and can sign
      most of them, too).
    - DVDS - Signing Time, Baby Signing Time and Baby Read (officially known as Your Baby Can
      Read). She asks for them by name and loves them.
* She is eating more and more different foods. We've added Pizza as something she seems willing to eat along with Candy, Ice Cream and Cake. Of course, we still stick to the favorites at home - Mac and Cheese, Chicken, Mashed Potatoes. For more fun food we had Ritz Bitz, Chips, and Cheetoes. (or signed by combining "cheese" and "toes").

Okay... more later from my little Butterfly!

*

Our Last Week as a Grasshopper

2011-07-27T21:30:00.001-05:00

Allie at 3 1/2 years old

Well, as you can tell from the number of blog entries this year, things are moving quite fast around Allie's world. There really isn't a lot of time to do much more than anything Allie wants to do. And, honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. But, fear not.. this blog is NOT over. I will be updating ... and going back a bit to document what you've missed. I've been taking some notes, so we are in good shape. But, before much more time passed, I had to talk about this week.

At Allie's school, things are busy as ever. Some of our older friends are graduating on Friday and the rest of us are "moving on up". Allie has been in the Grasshopper Room since last August and the change she has made is remarkable. In fact, all of our little classmates have just grown and developed by leaps and bounds! We have completely loved having Ms. Audrey, Ms. Lacey and Ms. Diana as our teachers, mentors, guiders and often - Mommy Therapists. They really are such loving and caring individuals and Allie is going to be sad when she realizes she won't get to be in class with them everyday. The Mommy is already sad despite knowing I'll most likely fall in love with the new teachers right away, too.

Last Week as a Grasshopper 7/25/11

First Week as a Grasshopper 8/9/10

Today as I entered the classroom I saw my little girl and her friends all sitting calmly in a semi-circle watching Ms. Lacey teach them some things on the computer. I stood and just watched. I really don't take Allie's advancements for granted, but despite being very aware of how she is doing, sometimes I'm still pleasantly surprised. Today was one of those days. Allie sat in her chair and participated as much as everyone - which was a lot. She said (and signed) the letters as Ms. Lacey called them out. She got excited when she knew she had it right. I remember a year ago walking in to pick up Allie and while the others were all in their semi-circle (okay, not ALL the others, but I did have blinders on) behaving (well, I thought they were), my Allie would be doing what she wanted where she wanted to do it. Of course, afternoons are a little more relaxed and she needed it and was only given a small space to be "free". But, still, I wondered when she would be able to participate in the same way for more than a few seconds. It didn't take her long of course, she's gotten more focused, more able to follow instructions and more excited to be part of the group every day. Still, today, it was so wonderful to watch her before she saw me and see her learning and interacting just like the others. Then, of course, the moment she saw me still fills my heart with joy every single time she breaks into her big smile and runs (not crawls or scoots as she did 1 year ago), but runs to fall into my arms for her hug. She has really come so far this year and grown so much.

Graduating Grasshopper & Ms. Dianna.

Early Grasshopper - time to get the chair

As she decided to walk down the hall - a few steps ahead of me - the nurse asked her, "Allie, where are you going?", Allie looked at her rubbed her fist down her cheek and said HOME. (the sign and the word). I, again, am reminded of how many times we've asked her question after question to try to get her to understand the question and answer it and now as if she's understood her whole life, she flat out told Nurse Cindy she was going home. I can't help it.. the fact is, my girl is brilliant. :-) And, I'm one very very proud and blessed Mommy.

My farmer girl has fun wherever she goes.

We find out tomorrow which classroom my little girl will be in.. will she be a Bluebird or a Shining Star? Of course, I know that answer, just not sure if the school does (get it... she is a 'shining star anyway!!). (I think I have the classroom names right).

I do promise I will update the blog and I still thank you all so much for being so interested in my little girl and the amazing progress she is making.

Allie hopes this summer has given you some chillin' out time.

2011-07-13 Allie at School Water Play Day

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"aiye aynt aim"

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Yes! Allie SAID it and signed it!!!

What?!?! You don't "speak" Allie yet? Okay... let me help.

Scene: Allie and I in the car heading to school.

Allie: "ahhhawgggg" (frustrated sound as if to say "Mommy - I want something!")

Mommy: looks at Allie and sees she has her fists together with both thumbs up and tapping them together and making the sound "ahhhawggggg". [note: this is the sign for "game" and the sound for frustration]

Mommy: "oh, what do you want, Allie?"

Allie: "ahhhawgggg"

Mommy: "Allie - say, I Want Game Please"
Allie: "aaaaaaiiiiiim, eeeeese"
Mommy: "Allie, say, "I""
Allie: pointing to her chest and saying "Aiye"
Mommy: "Say, "Want"

Allie: taking both hands somewhat opened palm in front of her and pulling them back (in Allie style) to sign "Want" and saying "aynt"

Mommy: "Say "game"

Allie: bumbing both fists together with her thumbs up and saying "aim"

Mommy: "Say "please, Mommy"

Allie: rubbing her chest and then tapping her thumb on her chin with her fingers extended to sign both "please" and "Mommy" says "eese bobbeee"

Mommy: "Good girl, Allie!"

This is a normal routine for us. I try to get her to "say it all together", I get her to throw in "i love you, Mommy" and also always "thank you". But, the other day, we were in the car heading to school and it starts very similar to the above, but traffic got my attention and before we got through the whole script I hear after a couple minutes of silence...

Allie: "aiye aynt aim"

Three words! All together! Not used together before and somewhat unprompted since we had several minutes of lapse time. I think all the people in the cars around us heard my cheers and our laughter. And yes, Allie was given her game.

Note: Our favorite game (iPhone App) and one I suggest for young learners is the First Words Deluxe App... It has words ranging in 3-8 letters and tiles with each letter on them and a picture of the word being spelled. The idea is to touch the letter and slide it on top of the matching letter to spell the word. The letters can be "flung" by sliding a finger on the screen so it doesn't have to be an exact placement everytime. Allie has mastered it and now says the letters and often the name of the word. She also signs many of them.

Have a wonderful day,
Signed the very proud Mommy (or "bobbee" if you heard Allie say it)

Allie's Modeling Career Begins

2011-04-25T20:58:00.000-05:00

Allie and Rachel as they prepare to go before the TV Camera

You must get through the sort PSA

before you can view Allie and Rachel's modeling appearance.

The Sunday before Easter Allie was asked to be on our local Fox TV station to "model" an Easter dress. Luckily, they needed another adorable model and our friend, Rachel was able to join us. Us Mommies had fun with their celebrity stars... but I was noticeably more nervous because it is hard to know what Allie will do and won't do these days. She is very independent and very fast and still not quiet following instructions all of the time. Yes... I hear you.. she is a toddler. Like any good Mom... I want her to be perfect - especially when anyone is watching. So, I was a bit nervous she would do something "Allie-like". And she did, but it was so cute - which is so "Allie-Like". She moved around the stage as fast as she likes to do. In fact, when you watch it, it is obvious that she goes up to Cecilia and points in the direction she wants to go - which is up the nearest steps. Isn't that sweet? She is asking permission to run off stage and climb the very tempting stairs. She really did good and I chased her around. Which is what our life is like these days, so now, you have a glimpse.

Our Buddy Rachel Hicks

Allie Lovell 3 years old

Allie and Rachel - after the show on the stairs

After our TV appearance and a lunch at iHop, which ended with Allie not eating anything but Ritz crackers, we took the girls to the Botanical Gardens for an fun photo-shoot. We got some wonderful pictures and I enjoyed watching the girls interact. And, of course, go their own ways and do their own things. We captured some of it in photos.

Our own semi-professional photo shoot.
We discovered if you follow the real photographers
around you get the great spots!

Here, let me help. Allie hands Rachel her pacifier

True friendship - helping to replace the pacifier

But, I don't really understand the whole paci-thing

Friendship - it's a simple thing, really

Happy Easter Everyone!!

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My love, my angel, my girl

Happy Easter Everyone! I keep apologizing that this blog is so outdated. But, well, it is. I do have some videos and pictures and stories to tell you, but it is time to wake up sleeping beauty (yes... this is the longest she has slept in a looooong time) and get our Easter Sunday started. May you all have a blessed day and be able to see all the blessings in your life. We are truly blessed in so many ways I keep loosing count.

Allie at 40 months old

Beautiful smile on my beautiful girl

Allie is getting so grown up.

The Easter Bunny LOVES Allie, too

Happy World Down Syndrome Day!

2011-03-21T06:40:00.002-05:00

Allie - thank you for bringing so much joy into our life.

Your extra special chromosome just makes you

even more extra special and extra sweet.

In fact, (sing it with me if you know the tune) ...

everything about you is especially fine....

I love what you are,

I love what you do...

fuzzy little snuggly puppy...

I LOVE YOU!!

You've made our world complete and so much fun every single day!

We love you, Allie!!

Everyone should be so blessed to have a person with Down syndrome in their life.

What a blessing we have in our Allie!!

What Was I like At 3, Mommy?

2011-03-19T23:13:00.000-05:00

Dear Allie,

This blog is all about you - as it should be - but, sometimes I write to your fans as I call them - the MANY people who love and support you. Sometimes you write to them. Sometimes we write to each other. Tonight, as I was putting you to bed I pictured you asking me "what was I like when I was....." and I decided I should tell you more. As you know, I keep a journal for you... but, as you know, too, I slack at it as much as I slack at other things. I think you know that doesn't make me bad, just busy. As many people can guess, the house isn't as clean as I'd like it and there are far too many toys around, but we spend our time doing what we think is important.. that usually means playing with you, hanging out with you, being silly with you and sometimes just watching in amazement. So, perhaps I'll try to include a few of my "journal entries" on this blog as I'm pretty sure these will all become books for you to enjoy or giggle at for years to come. Your readers have already glanced into our lives in the most tenacious events and the happiest, why not include them in the day to day as well.

You are a busy 3 year old. Since this all came to me as I patted your back and helped you calm down and fall asleep, we will start with your sleeping habits. You are my "go" girl. You have so much energy. Taking naps is not in your agenda and in fact, we've pretty much given up on them on the weekends. We used to try to follow your day care schedule to a "t" to ensure you'd nap, but it rarely worked. We've tried doing everything to wear you out for naps and if you take them, it is hours after you take them at school - regardless of what we did or did not do. I even wanted to invite all your classmates over to test my theory that you really needed 15 kids on cots next to you before you'd go to sleep. It did make me feel a lot better when I found out that it takes a good 5 minutes (at least)- and sometimes a stern reminder that it is "time for bed" at school to get you to sleep, too. So, many months ago we decided we'd do our weekends as we needed them to be - shopping, playing, visiting, whatever.. .if we happened to be home where you could take a nap, we'd definitely give it a whirl, but we stopped planning the day around the nap, which rarely happened and we ended up with the whole day gone and all we did was try to sleep... how exhausting that was!

Why do you not like to nap and go to sleep? I believe it is because you are so excited about everything... life, toys, fun.. you name it.. you want to do it. We do have a good routine at night, you and I love to rock in our chair. We read books and listen to lullaby's. Lately, we've even started going to your room earlier and we enjoy quieter games before we rock and read. I just love the time we have together. I know, sometimes it is my fault you stay up too late. I can't kiss you, hug you or listen to you giggle enough. You are my lovely addiction.

One thing you do - a little too often it seems - is take a "cat nap". I'm not sure you can really call it that. Basically, as it is close to nap or bedtime, we can get you settled enough where any other kid would be "down for the count". Tonight for example, you signed "bed", you walked to your bed, got in, tummy on the bed, arms wrapped around the pillow and you laid down quietly, gently breathing. I know enough not to move or make a sound. So, I sit with you next to your "big kid toddler bed" and wait for either you to fall asleep or you to sit up and point to your crib... or.... you to sit up, bright eyed and bushy tailed as if you just slept for 10 hours. Tonight, that is exactly what you did. Then, you ran through a bunch of your signs as if your mind was just wanting to recall the day or the last video you saw and then... as is the case lately, you ask for and signed "butterfly" (your current favorite DVD), you signed water, you swayed, you watch the shadows, you throw your doll, you pick up your doll, you pat your doll to sleep (okay, it looks like your beating the doll to sleep, but really.. you are patting the doll). You seem wide awake. Of course, normally I stop you before you do all you want to do and I encourage you to lay back down. I pat your back gently and coax you to sleep. Tonight, I let you do all that I just wrote just to watch you - the room was very dark - as it must be for you to go to sleep and we had your sweet Allie lullaby's going. I watched you in the shadows. Your mind is so active, you are so ready to go and do and learn. You just can't seem to imagine why you must rest. But, soon... sometimes 30, 40, 50 minutes later you give in and you sleep.

As you can see, we gave up naps because it can take more than an hour to get you to sleep - and sometimes all that accomplished was you being "rested" and us being worn out and in desperate need of our own naps. Experts can say all they want on what we should do, but I don't write this asking for advice. We all know everyone is different. We've even left you in the crib to fall asleep on your own (as I'm sure some of your readers were shouting out while reading this). But, with it... it makes no difference if you are alone or with us...you do the same things. You aren't scared of the dark, you need it dark as can be to sleep, but sometimes I'll be here on the computer, listening to your monitor - like I am now - and thinking you are asleep and you will surprise me - again after 30 or more minutes - with a giggle or chatter or you'll pull your butterfly crib toy and let its dainty music play. That's my Allie.. you can even be so very tired. People will tell us as we head to the car that you will be out before we hit the road. Car driving doesn't do it. We can ignore you, make no sounds, listen to soft music, etc. and will be awake the whole drive home. Your eyes will be tired and puffy from being tired, but you will sign "swing" or "slide" or - your consistent and favorite signs "Signing Time"; "Movie" and lately it is all wrapped up in "butterfly". You have a zest for life, a zest for being awake. A sweetness that can make even the most tired Mommy smile, hug you and say.. Allie.. you must calm down and go to sleep... lay down, please.....Then... when you are ready if you aren't already in your crib, you will sign bed, blow us a kiss and wave and say bye bye. When you do that, we know you are ready. We leave and you fall asleep... or doze for a moment... but, the consistent blowing us a kiss and saying "bye bye" is something I just love. My big girl, putting herself to sleep.

That is you at 3 and at bedtime. As I listen to your monitor, appropriate, your lullaby just ended and said... "Allie... goodnight..."

Driving and the iPhone

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March 2011 - Allie in her classroom with
her friend "Lela" - Officially called Bella.

In my pitiful attempt to go back and blog about the last few months - particularly the Christmas holidays, I'll start with this story. I was reminded of it today when we stopped by the Apple store to have my iPhone looked at since it's been acting up a bit lately. We had Allie in the stroller as it is best to keep her somewhat contained in such a store. As many of you know, Allie LOVES our phones. She listens to her videos on them, plays games, sometimes seems to find her way out to the Internet and is suspected of sending emails, texts and deleting FaceBook friends. While we strolled around the store, she had Tim's iPhone up to her ear as she listened to some music. I quickly realized how this looked as everyone that saw her made comments, laughed out loud or did a double take. She clearly looked like she was just on the phone - no big deal.

December 2010 - Allie and her Dora Bike

Anyway, that reminds me of how she first learned to "text and drive". While we were in Florida visiting Allie's Granny and PawPaw (a/k/a my Mom and Bill) they gave her a WAY COOL Dora bike. As is customary with the majority of toys they give to Allie.. it talks... it plays music.. it's loud. I think Paw Paw is behind that one. But, Allie loves anything that talks to her, so the bike is a regular favorite. We took these pictures while in Florida the first time we took the new bike outside. She enjoyed sitting on her bike, playing with the iPhone. She was in her own little world.

Who is she texting?

As sad as it seems... I'm thinking this kid is either going to inherit my iPhone in a few months or I'm going to have to buy her an iPod. Crazy isn't it? They really do have some wonderful applications/games for the little ones these days. Allie has one game (app) that has about 8 words that range from 3-5 letters in the words. She has to slide the letters over their corresponding letter. When she gets them all right, the word is pronounced. One day I realized she had completed them all really quickly, I started to pay more attention and realized that she can consistently complete all of them within 2 minutes.

Wow!! I bet I would have been BRILLIANT had I had these things when I was 3.

That's my kid - using both hands to drive,
but not letting the phone get too far away.

Allie - 3 years old. Dec 2010

Just Saying Hi Everybody!

2011-02-08T21:47:00.000-06:00

HI!

It seems life is moving so quickly these days... my tiny baby is now a tiny dancer and I sometimes comment how heavy she is getting. I think we hit the 23 pound mark - but, honestly, we just don't seem to pay that close attention anymore. She is now in pretty much 18 month clothes, but we can still wear some 12 month, so maybe that happens to allow me to hold onto my little baby longer... and we get more wear out of some darn cute clothes!

Silly girl looking for the silly dog

Allie loves her toys

one of Allie's favorite bedtime books

Allie is really trying to talk these days... some words are amazing me... we can tell exactly what she is saying. Others are still a mystery as is some of her signs.. if you miss what she was looking at or doing, you miss the word. But, she is enjoying practicing with her voice almost as much as she loves to "Move and Groove". Oh, my! We have a runner, walker, marcher, spinner, dancer, almost-jumper, wiggler and giggler in the house! It is so much fun to watch her learn and develop and her personality just keeps shining through. But, what else did we expect from our Amazing Allie, right?

Here are just a few snapshots to show you that sweet, energetic, silly, happy, loving Allie.Have a wonderful Valentines' Week.. eat lots of candy hearts!

I love this little grin

stretching is very important to a dancer

right, left, right, left... I think she's got it!

We love you, Allie!

who needs warm weather to go for a stroll?
Not Allie and Little Baby Allie

Yes - Allie knows that Daddy is very funny!

We Have a Ballerina in the House

2011-01-22T21:02:00.000-06:00

Allie doing stretches before dance class
(Okay, seriously, Allie is playing before going to dance class)

Allie is the second one on the left

(I'm hiding outside the door actually

thinking these kids can't see me)

Allie had her first dance class the other day. Technically we were just testing it out (but, let's be serious... look how cute she is in that leotard!!) and we will try it out again next week. But, given the little I saw before disrupting the entire class as I tried to watch Allie (sorry everyone.. I will watch from the monitor out front next time), she was really doing good!

She tried to follow the teacher when she lifted her arms, kicked her feet and moved around.She also walked freely a bit and toward the end seemed to decide that the activity room was simply more fun than dance class. But, I'm very excited in that she seemed to really be trying. It doesn't hurt that she is a huge Copy Cat and does whatever other people are doing (as long as it looks fun). I'm proud of my little dancing girl!

Oh.. and don't forget...she really just started walking in November without any assistance from her walker or from us. So, now that I see she is trying to dance, jump, run, etc. I'm even more amazed at how quickly someone can learn to do something when motivated. I guess independence is a strong motivator and Allie knows it.

Allie at Grandmother's house after her first class.

On another note, we stopped by to see Allie's Great-Grandmother (Tim's Grandmother) on the way home. We have been blessed with the opportunity to spend with her lately and have really enjoyed it. Tonight I was especially happy to witness them playing a fun little game together as I cleaned up after dinner and loaded up the car. It helps that Allie was strapped into her booster seat and couldn't do her normal constant moving activity. They both have really been enjoying this special time together and I'm very thankful for it.

Toddler Bed, Already??

2011-01-17T22:14:00.000-06:00

Allie and Hannah O'Brien sitting
on Allie's 'new' Toddler Bed

Over the weekend, Allie's room got an addition of a Toddler Bed. Melissa and her daughter have lent us their old bed and Allie enjoyed getting on it right away. She played with Hannah on it and sat on it to read books before going to sleep in her crib. The next morning she couldn't wait to sit on it and play... and fall off... and bump her head on the headboard. Today, I finally got around to rearranging her room and she seemed to like the bed in its new location. I didn't know how much she liked it until bedtime.

Let's just say that I'm not so ready for the independent, decisive little girl I will have (she is still a baby!!!). We had gone through a lot of our bedtime routine, but after 100 books (give or take one) she was still seeming to go strong. So, I announced it was "time for bed". My expectations were the same as they have been for 3 years now... we'd rock and give each other sweet Eskimo kisses until she fell asleep or close enough that she would prefer to be stretched out in her crib. However, tonight, my baby promptly got out of my lap and walked over to her new toddler bed, climbed in and fell asleep. No playing around at all.

The only thing about this story is... SHE ISN'T READY FOR A TODDLER BED! Okay, maybe I'm not ready. And, since I"m the Mommy... I"m playing the Mommy Card and I win. She is in the crib now safe and sound.

Seriously... we never even talked about sleeping in it - who does she think she is growing up so fast?!?!

Walking into 2011

2011-01-15T00:24:00.003-06:00

Happy New Year!

Allie practices and intently watches as she learns a new skill;
here she is practacing walking in her cool snow boots and outfit.

Wow... life has gotten even busier for us. Allie is on the move and anxious to learn more things and do everything. She has gotten her confidence in walking and she is really good at it. Lets see... when did all this begin? If you will recall back in October at the Buddy Walk, she was just learning to walk and still needed to hold hands... but, had mastered just one hand holding sometimes. Then, within just a few weeks she was up and walking around the house - elbows out as she balanced herself. By Christmas, she had it mastered. This week as we were stuck in the house due to the weather, I captured her "kicking her feet" to the Happy and You Know it song. She really loves this new freedom and we are impressed at how quickly she has mastered it. In fact, before Christmas, her Physical Therapist Marliese, commented on how she was very surprised and impressed she was at how quickly Allie had it mastered. She told me that her and Allie and some of the others were on the playground one day and she turned to help another student and Allie was already halfway across the playground walking around. I wasn't surprised. Allie is so very fast and determined. Oh, and don't worry.... anything tied to our school and therapists and teachers is safe and secure.They have the most amazing playground and there are always plenty of teachers watching all of the kids. So, Allie didn't sneak away... everyone saw her as did her therapist. (I know how protective all of you Allie fan clubbers are!) and all seem to be amazed at our "amazing Allie".

Walking makes it easier to
cook in her kitchen

On another note... Allie is really trying to talk. It seems like her priority included walking and then talking. Because as soon as she was at a good walking level, she began showing us her voice. Oh sure, to many of you it would seem like just normal baby babble. But, we are hearing so many words. She often does her signs at the same time or if I'm not understanding what she said, she will then show the sign. She is even signing along to her DVDs. It is such an exciting time for us and such a busy time.

Allie is also increasing her abilities! As I typed this sentence, she got up, walked over to her (way cool) new bike, got on it and pushed herself and the buttons to make noise - all at the same time. She is mastering toys and doing everything you can imagine... yes, that includes getting a few extra time-outs these days. I'm not really sure if she is learning or we are just getting more trained. She is very independent, determined, excited to learn, intent on learning and flat out FUN FUN FUN! Oh... and she is still the sweetest little girl ever!

End of October 2010

(35 months old)

December 2010

January 2011

January 11, 2010
(37 1/2 months old)

Here is another video on YouTube you can watch. It really shows Allie trying to talk/sing along to her Signing Time DVD. It was too long to post here, but not too long to enjoy. I hope you like it!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hguCc-jcYjs

Sorry it is taking me longer and longer to post these entries. We just keep staying busier and busier and I seem to have more and more trouble with this site. My plan is to go back and catch you all up on some events over the holidays, but if I can't find a way to make these posts easier to publish, I may have to find another site to document Allie's life. Or perhaps, I should post more often and include less pictures and videos and maybe it would be easier. Either way I go... wish me luck - I'll keep you posted. ~Sandy

Allie's Theatre Debut

2010-12-12T21:43:00.000-06:00

Allie's amazing school had their annual Holiday show on Friday and the theme was Christmas on the farm. Each classroom dressed up and put on a song or two for us. Allie's classroom sang "Christmas Time's A Coming" and the kids were wonderful! Not a single tear was shed on stage, but probably some in the audience with the family watching. I was proud of my little "I can stand" daughter. In fact, the majority of the song she spent trying to get away. Now that she has her new found freedom of walking, she is quick to want to explore. She did stay on stage and out of the "snow" for the most part. She also jingled her jingle bells wonderfully. I'm so proud of her and all of her classmates. They did a fantastic job! Note: I did tell you all that she was walking, right? She learned it quick and hasn't stopped since. I'll try to post more about that, but don't expect pictures. She is way too fast these days. haha

I am not able to upload the video here, but please click to watch her class perform and if you can't find Allie - just look about center stage (to the right of the music teacher) and you will see her trying to scoot away.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfFOcBSEjuM

Have a wonderful holiday season! Merry Christmas!!

Day One With Our 3 Year Old

2010-11-19T21:53:00.000-06:00

A balloon is all she
really needed

Catch me
if you can

She has read the rule book and she knows all about 3 and she is ready to teach us! First thing this morning she was ready to go - she was this way, she was that way, she was everywhere. Since her school was celebrating Thanksgiving today, we skipped the school Birthday celebration. However, due to several wardrobe malfunctions (did this kid grow overnight?), we ended up wearing her Birthday shirt anyway. She seemed to understand when I showed it to her and claimed the day as her won. Seemingly, too, the multiple attempts at changing clothes and trying on new ones caused her to be very quick at the getaway maneuvers. Let's just say I was a bit worn out by the time I tried to get her pictures, so, this is what you get.

Melissa and Allie

Then, my dear buddy, Melissa and I went to join Allie at school for her Thanksgiving Feast. I admit I tried to just sit by and watch my child eat since she does so much better for school than for me and it was a nice break. Sure, enough when she saw me wave at her - the plate went flying.

Friends... what would
we do without them?

I tried to blame it on sweet Jack (hey.. it was a weak moment full of parents with non-plate throwing kids), but Jack's Mom, Andrea - who was sweetly tending to her boy and my daughter knew I was not serious. Although, Andrea - you were probably wondering if I would come get my food-fight-starter out of your hair, right? I did step in and do my Motherly duty - which consisted of not eating lunch and trying to get my wiggly child to stop wiggling while I got the potatoes out of her hair.

She is getting away

Then, Melissa grabbed a few pictures - much nicer than the ones I took of her (sorry, Mel!) and we scooted back to work as quickly as we arrived. I do like this picture because it does show you how quick my girl can be and it is sometimes surprising when she gets up and goes so quickly.

Yes, this is the best picture I could get
as she moved and wiggled and I blinded
her with the camera flash.

Tim picked Allie up at school and got the news... Allie - who as you know has just mastered walking, decided to dart out of line today as they were walking down the hall (yes, all the other orderly kids in line) and she made a very quick dash/run for the Usborne Book Saleslady. She seemed to nearly make it before being caught - if I got the story right. That's my girl - taking a moment to purchase a new book! Always the learner....

Then, the two of them came and picked me up and we went to dinner. Since we already had a party for Allie, we chose to just do dinner out. And, since Allie always loves it when Applebees sings Happy Birthday to their guests, we asked them to sing to Allie. Actually, they asked us if they could - to which we answered... that is why we came. We thought she would enjoy it and they all seemed to enjoy her reaction... we think she liked it.. what do you think?

Happy Birthday, Allie!

We got so many wonderful voice mails, emails, Facebook posts, cards, presents and well wishes for Allie's 3rd Birthday. We thank you all so much. It was a fun day and something tells me that we will stretch this birthday out a few more days.

My sweet eater

Go ahead... celebrate Allie, too. Eat some cake and ice cream. And... if you really want to feel closer to Allie and experience her life a bit... don't use the utensils - and use your "other" hand. :-) We recommend a bath directly after the celebration, however. The bib is even a recommendation.

Have a wonderful Fall Weather Week! Don't forget to notice those leaves change and don't jump in a pile of leaves with a wet sucker. :-)

Happy 3rd Birthday, Allie!

2010-11-19T00:01:00.001-06:00

Happy Birthday Sweet, Amazing Allie. We love you so much and are so thankful you came into our lives! You bring so much happiness to us and to everyone you meet. We are so proud of all that you have done in just 3 short (and very very quick) years. You are growing way too fast for us, but we will never hold you back. We love you so much and are so proud of your determination to accomplish so many things. I thought this entry was a perfect place to glance back at how far you have come over the past 3 years. We love you so much more than you will ever imagine.

Love, Mommy & Daddy

Year One - from your Birth Day to your first Birthday.
You gave us so much from the first moment we saw you and you
taught us to be strong and stand back as you took the world by surprise!

Year Two - You gave us a present on Christmas Eve by sitting on your own and
you never slowed down after that. Your sweet personality continues to emerge!

Year Three - It seems every day this year you were doing something new.
You are determined to walk and are doing it on your own now. You
are practicing sounding out words and you are so playful and so loving.
You have a genuine love for life and luckily - for us, too.

Thank you, Dear Allie. You have changed our lives for the better.

Happy Birthday, Lil' Bit!
We all love you so very much!

Hi, Allie - it is me, Nicky - thanks for throwing the
ball to me all the time and sharing your food with me.
I love it!
Woof! Woof!

Allie says, "It's Time To Walk!"

2010-11-07T21:26:00.005-06:00

Allie walking with me at the ALS walk
early October.

For awhile now, Allie has been getting better and better at walking. Towards the end of July, Allie was showing more and more abilities to stand up - using bookshelves, toys, tables, etc. to help her. A August approached, she was able to walk a lot more controlled with someone holding her hands. Since then, she seems to be taking off on her own. Then, just a couple weeks ago - she would stand up, take a few steps and sit down. It was all brand new to her and us and so very exciting! The first time we really saw it was an evening a few days after the Buddy Walk. We stopped in to see Allie's Great-Grandfather, Art. Clearly she was showing off for him and we were all thrilled. And now, only a few weeks later she is standing up, walking across the room, turning around, etc. In fact, she is always signing to us to "walk", so she can practice - with or without assistance. And then, today she even walked backwards!! It is a thrilling time for us and I wanted to post a few videos to share this with you. I know you will be as excited as we are. Watch out... Allie is on the move and will be giving all of us a run for our money, I"m sure.

Allie using her wings and her walker
to move around on her own.

July 31st. Practicing her standing while Granny

watched from her home in Florida.

October 9, 2010 - Walking in front of our house.

November 7,2010 - Allie standing up and walking

November 7, 2010 - Allie walking backwards - this is new as of today!

May you have a wonderful week and enjoy ever new thing you learn!

Rock On!

2010-11-04T22:44:00.000-05:00

Did you guess what I was going to be on Halloween Night??? I was a Rock n Roll Fan.... just like my Daddy!

Just gotta dance (or try to walk)

I'm walking!

Mommy said I looked Adorable! We didn't do a lot of trick or treating. I went to my neighbors house and everyone ooo'd and aaahhh'd at me. That was fun. I blew kisses and giggled and just had fun.

Then, we went Trunk or Treating. Well, we tried to anyway. Seems like the place we went last year was so good that everyone in every town around us wanted to get in on the deal and they all showed up. So, we walked a bit and then went and got a movie.

It was still fun and the few trick or treaters that came to the house got a lot of candy because we just left it out for them. At least this year they left the bowl.

I hope you got more treats and no tricksters this year!

Two Rockers

Happy Halloween!

2010-10-31T01:26:00.001-05:00

Ms. L.Bug Practicing her Walk

A bug crawls on the floor - don't squish her!

Hi, this is Allie and I'm a Bug! When Mommy brought home this LadyBug outfit I got so excited and signed Bug a whole lot. I love to look at my wings, too! My PawPaw was here recently and he gave me a new nickname ... he calls me Bug. He says he has seen Bugs bigger than me. He lives in Florida where they must have some really big bugs. It's okay that he calls me it, I know he isn't picking on me or anything, plus he lets me poke at his beard. Besides... Bug is one of my favorite things to sign these days especially because of my cool costume. I'm also really big into Butterflies. I got some wings for my early birthday party and love to put them on and play in front of the mirror. It is lots of fun.

Grasshopper Room Friends - Allie & Lacey; Jack; Jack W;
Meri Margaret, Clark, Madison, and James

Allie caught taking candy from Jay's pumpkin
while baby Lady Bug, Kate, watches.

At my school for Halloween this past Friday, we dressed up in costumes and went on a Parade! I got a lot of candy and this year I actually have started to like candy! I ate my first tootsie roll only a few hours ago. It was good. Mommy said I can't like candy as much as she does and I've seen her eat candy. I don't think ANYBODY can like it as much as she does. When we went on our parade at school, I got to walk past my old classrooms - the Babybird Nest, Morning Glory and the Sunshine Room. I was so excited (and so was Mommy) to show them I can walk a little. I still need help - but, I can do it only holding one hand and sometimes I hold onto the wall - because we are supposed to do that at school. All the big kids do. I am getting better at walking and love to practice.

Allie and her teacher, Audrey
from the Grasshopper Room

One of the most fun games ever is when I sit across from Mommy, she signs "stand up" and asks me if I want to walk. Then, I usually giggle (I can't help it - it is fun!!) and stand up and take a few steps to her. She has counted 8 steps so far. I really like doing it. I sign again and she picks me up and puts me back away from her and says "stand up", so I do... it is so much fun. Sometimes we laugh so much the dog starts to bark. He is such a silly dog.

On Halloween Night, I'm probably not going to be a bug. My Daddy is helping me with a new costume to go Trunk or Treating with. Have you heard of Trunk or Treating? It is fun... we went last year when I was only 1. It is in a big parking lot - usually of a church - and everyone decorates their cars or their tents and they give out candy. They have music and bouncy things and lots of fun stuff to do and eat. I think we are going to do that again. I'll ask Mom to put a picture of me in my new costume up tomorrow.

Looks a bit like she is doing the Monster Mash,
but it's all sweet Allie!

Have a Happy Halloween!!!

Allie seemed to have so much fun and
spontaneously gave me a sweet
Allie-girl kiss. I love my lil' bug!

An Early Birthday - But, Not Rushing Allie to Grow

2010-10-31T00:18:00.001-05:00

Hannah and Allie

While Allie's Granny and PawPaw were in town for the Buddy Walk, we decided to throw Allie her 3rd birthday party early so they could be a part of it.

Allie was excited to
see her classmate James

Rest assured, I'm NOT rushing Allie to grow up.

I am trying to get used to her growing up, though. I'm so shocked sometimes when I look at her and see how far she has come and how much she accomplishes and then I think... where have the last 3 years gone? I guess that is what birthday's are for... looking back at how much you have enjoyed someone and how glad you are they are part of your life.

Anyway, with all that said... we threw a party and had a lot of fun. And,yes... my baby, is understanding the whole "party" thing. Presents are no longer things I MAKE her open. Don't get me wrong, she still loves the tissue paper and the empty box a little too much, but she can rip open a package without too much help.

Our buddy, Madison

Marley, Carlyn and Sheila.
Allie first met Marley when they
were tiny babies in he NICU together!

She also seemed to understand that it was her celebration. I guess we've gone to enough birthday parties and watched enough DVDs about events such as this that she seemed to get the idea it was all about her. She did act rather grown up as she sat with her friends and ate her cake. She played and laughed and giggled and swung on the swings and the way fast slide was way cool.

Our Rocker Buddy Noah

It was a wonderful Dora Themed birthday party and we had lots of fun with her friends and Granny and Paw Paw got to be a part of her day. Of course, I do know she is NOT 3 yet. We have 20 more days before she is no longer my little bitty 2 year old.

A Fun 3rd Birthday Party with Friends and Granny and PawPaw

Super Girl Flies!

Buddy Walk 2010

2010-10-28T22:11:00.002-05:00

Allie's Allies 2010

Help me walk, Dada

Granny, Paw Paw, Allie, Mommy and "Dada"

Allie's - and our- 3rd Buddy Walk was this month and we had so much fun celebrating Allie and Down syndrome in general. My Mom - Allie's Granny - and Bill - Allie's PawPaw came to town to participate in the walk and we had such a wonderful time watching them with Allie over the course of several days.

Allie and Nathan

As many of you know, The Buddy Walk was introduced several years ago and they are held all over the world. The goal is primarily to raise awareness, acceptance and to provide advocacy for people with Down syndrome. We are not looking for a cure - there is no cure. Down syndrome occurs at conception and is all part of God's plan (in my opinion). Some people feel a "cure" is to terminate a pregnancy. (Yes, GASP!!). Some doctor's still today encourage this option as they have no idea how capable individuals with Down syndrome can be. (yes, another GASP).

Allie's Buddy Jack

So, the Buddy Walk is vital to get the word out - to introduce ourselves and prove to everyone that people with DS are not disadvantaged. They are as different as everyone else is different from each other. We all have disabilities - things we aren't so good at and things we are good at. So do they. People with DS may learn using different methods - or perhaps not. Which, is not much different than any one else. They have just as many feelings and emotions as people without DS and they have goals and dreams, too. So, again, the Buddy Walk raises awareness and acceptance and hopefully opens doors to allow all individuals to obtain the jobs they want, go to the schools they want, live life as they want. Who wouldn't want this, right? So, to all those doctor's out there and individuals who clearly still "don't have a clue". I say ... get one!

Granny, Mommy, Allie

Whew... not sure where that came from, but I'm off my soap box and back onto my nice cushy chair. I guess I just felt that needed to be said, so I'll leave it. But, back to our day... the weather was perfect - okay, a tad hot for Alabama in mid-October as I believe we were in the mid-80's. But, we had the largest turn out ever for our Buddy Walk. Allie's Allies - our team - got even more organized this year and had more than just signs. We had a table and soft drinks and snacks and - compliments of Granny - we had a home-made Dora Cake! Dora is a favorite of Allie's and we enjoyed having such a celebrating Dora with us. The cake was also delicious and gave us all a much needed snack after our walk.

Jenny, Melissa and Hannah

- always there for us

In fact, our walking team consisted of about 30 individuals and Allie WALKED with us. Okay, she still held our hands, but she walked a good bit of it. It is so exciting to see the changes in her and they seem to happen almost daily now. She is really becoming a little girl and no longer a baby (sniff sniff). Additionally, we had donations from over 80 people!! We raised approximately $2,900! As a group, the PADs organization (Parent Advocates for Down Syndrome) raised over $104,000 and money is still coming in! All money raised stays here in Birmingham to help the Parent Support group (PADS) and to help fund the Adult Down Syndrome Clinic here at UAB (Birmingham).

Allie's friend, Madison

It was such an exciting fund raiser and it was so rewarding getting donations from all over the country - from family, friends, friends from way back when, friends of friends, and people we don't really even know. So many people love Allie and saw the importance of donating. We thank you so much for that! We truly are blessed to have so many loving people in our lives.

Neighbors make the best friends!

Kimberly and Kayley with Allie & I

Leah, Sheila, Allie and I.

Our Buddy Walk is always held in October and we always welcome you to come join us and walk with us. Or... if you can't come to Birmingham, please attend a Buddy Walk in your town, you will have a wonderful time with some wonderful people!

Thank you to everyone that supported our team and walked with us and thought about us and wished us well. We really appreciate all the help you do to get the word out about Down syndrome.

Down Syndrome Awareness Month is Here!

2010-09-30T21:58:00.000-05:00

Welcome to October - National Down Syndrome Awareness Month

Please support me in my 3rd Buddy Walk.

I'd love to have you come walk with us!!

www.firstgiving.com/allielovell

All money raised at our Buddy Walk stays here in Birmingham to help families like mine and we support the Adult Down Syndrome Clinic at UAB.

Did you know that it is only one of 3 in the nation? (gasp!) When I'm older I'll need this clinic to help me take good care of myself,

learn job skills and a lot of other skills.

Won't you please consider

helping us and future me?

Every dollar helps and NO contribution is too small.

thanks!

Love, Allie Lovell

P.S. I'm going to WALK at this Buddy Walk.

Come see for yourself!!

Let's Get Allie on the Cover of Birmingham Parent Magazine

2010-09-01T22:30:00.008-05:00

http://birminghamparentcoverkids.surveyconsole.com/

Voting has begun! Help us get Allie on the cover, please. I think eventually it will have her name next to her picture, but for now she is the first one in the Special Needs category. She is wearing a yellow top and looks her typical happy self (See picture above). Voting goes through the end of October, so please vote as often as you feel like it – they ask that you vote once a day from as many computers as you have access to. I actually don't expect you to do it daily, but as you think of it, please vote. Also, the kids are super cute, so we will need your help!

Also… you probably know this, but I feel the need to repeat it - the reason I do these type of things is to try to bring awareness for Down syndrome. The more people know about it and see perfectly normal little kids like Allie, the less frightening it is for them (regardless if they are an expectant parent, a parent of a friend of a child with Down syndrome, or any number of examples). The less other people are afraid or ignorant about Down syndrome, the more normal of a life Allie will have and the more acceptance she will experience.

The goal right now is to get her on the cover of their Special Needs edition (which I heard they may have 2 next year!!) and spread the word and spread the Allie Love. :-)

Thanks… happy voting! Please spread the word if you'd like.

Also, as a side note... this is the first year they are doing online voting exclusively, therefore the site may not always work properly or quickly as they may experience a huge surge of votes (hopefully due to Allie's Fan Club -Allie's Allies) If you run into trouble voting, please just come back and try again later in the day.

Sincerely,
Captain of Allie's Fan Club
Sandy and Tim

a/k/a “Mama” "Mom" "Mommy" or whatever Lil Bit decides to call me. :-)

and a/k/a DaDa (her most favorite thing to say, recognize, ask about and favorite sign to do)

XOXOXOXOXOX to all of you!

Visiting Great Grandmother

2010-08-27T22:23:00.006-05:00

I'm embarrassed to say that these wonderful pictures were taken back in May. I know... this poor blog is getting so outdated. I really am trying to work on it, but chronological order is not going to probably happen all of the time now.

Anyway, in May, Vicky came to visit her Aunt Fay, which is, of course, Allie's Great Grandmother - Tim's Grandmother. Allie and I were able to stop by and show off some of Allie's bike riding abilities and to visit for a while. It is always fun to see relatives and Vicky hadn't had the opportunity to meet Allie yet, so that was a treat. Visiting Grandmother does not happen as much as we wish it could, so when we are able to stop in and spend a few minutes, we truly enjoy the opportunity.

Allie enjoyed her hat - for a little while. I think she knows when she is darn cute.

Thank you Vicky, for visiting and letting us stop in and spend some time with you and Grandmother.

Allie and Her Summer Break

2010-08-15T23:07:00.006-05:00

Allie had a full week off before starting in her new classroom - the Grasshopper Room. And, while I plan to post an entry about each activity, I realize many of you would just ask me to post something. So, here is a brief synopsis of my week with Allie as she transitioned from a Sunshine Girl to a Grasshopper.

We started the week right after school on Friday with a trip to Allie's first Minor League Baseball game, The Baron's. I have no clue what the score was as I've learned when you are there with 2 year olds it is really all about moving around and eating. I've also been reminded that Alabama does NOT ever cool off at night - at least not in the summer. So, we were all way too hot to get pictures of the adults. But, Allie and her buddy, Ethan photographed well. We also saw our friend Edie and her parents, too. It was a great kickoff to the week.

Allie's friend, Jack's Mom had a pool party to celebrate the end of the year and we went to that as well. Allie had a blast swimming and learning to "jump" into the water.

Another fun thing we did was meet with Ethan and his Mommy, Holly, at the McWane Science Center where we met some members of the Allie Fan Club (and because this is two weeks later I've forgotten their names - please post a comment so I remember, okay). That was rather exciting for us. We also met Mr. Potato Head, too. :-)

We also met up with our new friend, Ana, and we both tested out SplashPad together. It was a lot of fun meeting with Ana, Zoe and their Mom, Gina. We can't wait to get together again. The girls really enjoyed splashing and then they took in a Signing Time DVD before Ana took a nap and Allie made a mess of lunch.

We concluded the week with a girls getaway to scrapbook, play and giggle. Allie somehow had her foot died blue (who would do such a thing??) and she and her Aunt Shea created quite a fuss over their new trick and would do it on demand for us. And, as always, Allie was treated like one of the girls and included in everything - even the matching way cool shirts.

More to come on all of this - but, now you are slightly updated and you get a glimpse of our girl.

Have a great week.

Gotta Have Some Ice Cream

2010-07-26T21:31:00.007-05:00

It isn't much of a secret that Allie isn't a big eater. There are so many other things to do and food takes a back seat for this little girl. But, tonight I was just so proud of her during dinner. She just kept eating. She would reach over to my plate and eat green bean after green bean, then even ate the carrots and the corn, too! She didn't stop there... she ate peaches and chicken, too. And did all this while occasionally gulping down some of her extra calorie fortified milk. I was so excited! I just sat with her until she stopped - which was almost a whole hour after she started. I tried not to change anything or bring attention to it - or she most certainly would have stopped eating. I would occasionally, add more to my plate and she just kept grabbing it... bean by bean, carrot by carrot!

Then, after missing an opportunity to chat with Granma and Grandpa on the Webcam after her bath, she seemed to want to honor Grandpa with dessert! This was so rare. She crawled into the kitchen and I, her always chatting Mom, asked if she wanted Ice Cream (not expecting a "yes" by any stretch). She signed Ice Cream. So, I asked "Do you want Ice Cream?" She signed "Yes" and "Ice Cream". So...she got it! She even ate it with some carmel topping on it (another first, but I had to try as I hear it has LOTS of calories!) Then, we sat there for about 30 minutes as I continued to shovel ice cream in her mouth (okay, she JUST had a bath and I wasn't brave enough for her to feed herself ice cream this late in the evening) and as she watched her movie. In fact, the movie seemed like a big thing tonight. After asking for Ice Cream, when I sat her down to give her some, she kept signing that it was movie time and wouldn't take a bite of the ice cream. I was trying to avoid another DVD, but she wouldn't touch the ice cream and would sign "Time" and point to the TV. You know she won, but as soon as the movie was on... she ate - despite clearly being very sleepy. Oh, well, we will break the DVD habit after she weighs a bit more. Choosing those battles - hopefully wisely - one at a time.

Also, when I picked Allie up at school this evening they were just getting ready for snacks. Allie was signing cracker (which is a pretty common request), so I put her at the table and expected her to really want to come with me instead, but she sat there and ate her crackers and seemed to know that I wasn't leaving without her. She didn't throw a single part of it, either. My little girl is just growing up so quickly at times!

I must say that I think Tim put it best. As he was putting the very tired and very full baby into bed he said "I think she heard I called the doctor today to talk about her eating habits". She must have; but she proved she can eat when she wants to.

Good girl, Allie!

A Glimpse of Down Time with Allie

2010-07-24T13:09:00.011-05:00

A few snapshots and videos of a glimpse into hang out time with Allie. As you know, Allie seems to love toys. All toys, really. Blocks, puzzles, books and lately Dolls are really big with her. A couple months ago she found my - very worn and true to their names - Raggedy Ann and Raggedy Andy. Poor Andy seems to be her favorite and she likes to grab him by the hair - which he was already losing and years ago reverted to a comb over. In fact, poor Andy had to have some reconstructive surgery (as did Ann, but it isn't as noticeable). Andy had a run in with one of my prior 4 legged puppies. Luckily, Allie's Granma saved the day - years before Allie came along and operated on both Raggedy Ann and Andy and gave them new life for the someday little girl that might happen to play with them like I did when I was young. Allie found them and seems rather taken with them. I admit, I'm not sure what I'll do when she asks to take them in public as they are clearly worn and probably date her mother way too much. But, you know... Allie will probably win if she gives me one of those Allie looks that I love and cave into.

Allie loves her Signing Time DVDs and luckily with today's technology, she can watch mini versions on the Signing Time Application. She takes pretty good care of the iPhone when she has it, but it also has a really nice case to protect it. (I highly recommend the Otterbox - it has been dropped, thrown, and bumped onto all surfaces and from a variety of heights). We are really fortunate with the things that are available to parents these days. We are not the only parents that calm a tired and rambunctious 2 year old at a restaurant with a DVD, game application or other similar items. It is amazing how quiet these tikes get when you let them watch their favorite shows.

Allie loves music - it seems of all kinds. I think she will be forced to like Rock and Roll the best as it seems to run in her blood. In fact, I can often recall when I was pregnant with her that she would move a lot more when I was in the car playing rock and roll. But, rest assured, she got a lot of Mozart, Bach and the rest, too. It's why she is brilliant, you know.

Allie also loves to dance (she sways and wiggles, of course), jump (she kicks those legs like a wonder-girl), giggle, freeze (a/k/a stop and pretend you can't move at all - although, she often moves part of her body while doing it. hahaha), and wiggle, wiggle, wiggle. When crawling, she is extremely fast. If you are ever with her and think you can take a moment to see what she will do before you go get her - be prepared to have to run. It is funny we sometimes forget and she gets a huge head start.

Bedtime = playtime. Okay, seriously, we just play before bedtime. Night time bedtime is rather easy for Allie. We have a good routine (yes, she gets at least one DVD or she literally hounds us about it) and we read books, take baths, play with toys, whatever we are in the mood to do. And, of course, I capture some of them with videos or pictures. Which is why she is often in PJ's. Daytime naps are not so easy. It seems she knows we are going to be doing things. She can literally fight a nap for hours - despite attempting to follow the same get up, play, eat and rest routine she does at school. I have even tried the same music and nap mat. But, she can fight it. She will look exhausted - red eyes, rubbing at them, sucking fingers, etc and she will get silly and wake back up. Today for example, while rocking with her and helping her fall asleep, she was almost out when she decided it would be funny to put her foot to my nose. Of course, Mommy likes to play, too, so we played a bit about stinky feet. Then, got her calmed down and I thought she was asleep, only to find her standing in her crib talking to the fan (okay, maybe not talking to it, but clearly wanting to pull on the string). She has so much energy, drive and ability. It is so much fun to watch!

These are examples of a really tired girl at naptime and/or bedtime. Hard to see the exhaustion sometimes, but put her in the rocking chair or a dark quiet room and boom... half asleep in a moment.

This first video shows a little bit of Allie's personality and sense of humor. She has recently gotten into the habit of shaking her head up and down appropriately for "Yes" and it is DARN cute! Right before this video, I asked her if she wanted more cereal, she shook her head. I grabbed the camera and asked again and this is what I get. Now, a few notes about sign language - making your hand into a fist and shaking it -like you would your head - is "yes". Taking your first two fingers and touching your thumb - is "no". Waving your open hand in front of your arm is "movie" (Allie's favorite thing to request). So, get a glimpse of Allie messing with her Mommy.

Allie loves the mirror. This night before bed, she just calmly played - eventually went and got Raggedy Andy and watched him sit in all the same spots she did and watched him in the mirror as she maneuvered him.

Allie has discovered mobility and the joy it can bring. Push toys really aren't much fun until you can push them around. She is very good at it and probably doesn't realize she really doesn't need them to stand and walk, but it sure does help. Watch out for when she does realize have the ability to walk without it... we think we are tired now, right?

Thanks for glimpsing at the girl in action!

Swim Day x 2

2010-07-24T00:49:00.007-05:00

Allie had a lot of fun today at school with Water Play Day. While I don't have pictures of Water Play Day at school (yet?); I know she had fun and I was able to snap a picture or two and a video before she began her school day.

Allie absolutely loves the water. She loves to stand and kick her leg - usually her right leg and make lots of water splash everywhere. The neighbors, Kaylee and Hannah got a kick out of this when they allowed Allie to swim with them today. And, considering it was very hot again today 100+, the water was wonderful for all. Except for mid afternoon before we joined them... the sun had made the water just too hot to get in.

Allie splashing the girls by kicking her legs

and holding onto the side of the pool

Gotta blow kisses. That's my sweet Allie.

Allie has a funny crawl sometimes. I call it her "spider" crawl. Go ahead... watch it and try to tell me it doesn't look like a spider. She is really super fast with the spider crawl, too.

This video gives you a slight idea of our silly Allie girl. She is always entertaining us and doing fun things. Don't miss the one legged kick. Its funny, Allie will play in front of the mirror - with her "twin" I say and practice all sorts of body movements and signs. One day I saw she was doing leg lifts in preparation for walking. Given what I know about Allie - it wouldn't surprise me in the least!

Happiness is a new doll

2010-07-23T23:11:00.004-05:00

Allie's best bud, Kaylee, from next door gave her this doll the other day; and Allie really seems to like this new doll.

Allie has enjoyed her dolls for a while now. She also signs doll (take your pointer finger, bend it a little and rub your nose). But, this doll seems to have gotten her attention quickly. Not necessarily more than the others, but in a different way. For example, despite trying to throw it as soon as Kaylee gave it to her, she has kept a good watch on it. As soon as we got in the house, she took it over to her doll high chair and proceeded to put it in the chair. When I asked her if the doll was thirsty, she maneuvered over to the refrigerator and got out the toy juice cup and toy milk bottle. She continued to play as you can see in the video at the end of this post.

That night we were rocking in her chair and she threw poor doll over. This is not unusual and Allie looked over at the doll - also, not unusual. What was unusual was she just HAD to get out of my arms and got onto the floor and went to the doll and began to try to stuff it into the crib. When I put Allie in the crib with her doll, (whom I seem to want to call Kaycee for some reason) she then moved her all around the crib - on a pillow, off a pillow, with a blanket, etc. Allie even signed she was thirsty for milk and when I gave it to her, she immediately tried to feed this doll. Then, she stuck the doll on one side of the crib on top of a pillow, face down, bottom in the air. I thought that was funny and then Allie turned and went to the opposite side of the crib on the other pillow and positioned herself in the same way. It was adorable. And, I, being the Mommy that I am put a silky blanket over Allie and a much tinier silky blanket over Kaycee, our new doll.

I love being Allie's Mom!!

Happy 4th of July

2010-07-18T23:16:00.006-05:00

Okay, so I'm way slow, but that isn't going to stop me from sharing pictures from around the 4th. Here is Allie with her first and second face painting experiences. I'm not sure how they kept her still long enough to do it, but clearly they have skill. Only one of the many reasons I love her school and her teachers!

Waiting for dinner to be served and goofing around with her favorite pal - "DADA" (sometimes also seemingly known to be called "BABA" by Ms. Allie Bai).

Allie showing off her dimples

Listening to the UAB Orchestra, Downtown Birmingham

There was so much to look at and show Daddy

Is there something you don't like, Allie?

Chillin' to "colorful stars" or fireworks.
(Allie signed "stars" and "colors" at several times)
My baby ain't scared at all!

Playtime

2010-07-16T22:58:00.011-05:00

Tim and Allie - a perfect pair

It has been a very busy couple months for us. Nothing major going on (at least nothing I can think of off hand unless I've 'blocked' it all), just day in and day out with a very active 2 1/2 year old. We are having a blast and as you might imagine we thank God every day for our miracle baby. She is keeping us on our toys and makes us laugh and love a little more every day. She is truly a blessing and we couldn't be happier - or more tired these days - with very active little Allie.

Over the past couple months, I had taken pictures of things I specifically wanted to post on the blog, but time got away from me and the pictures got filed. So, now I want to go back to the beginning of April and show you some pictures. The one at the top was taken on Easter and is one of my fav recent pictures of Tim and Allie. Bonnie took the picture and we had a wonderful time at her house celebrating Easter and we had a fantastic Easter Egg hunt. Allie finally got the hang of it right when we found the last - somewhat obviously hidden egg. One of my fondest moments of the Easter Egg hunt was finding a "golden" egg and getting Allie to discover it and pick it up. Then, she was so excited she laughed and threw the egg; which was promptly found again by a very excited only slightly older boy. It was fun and I was so glad she didn't want the egg back.

Teaching about looking for eggs; posing for pictures;

Playing with the cool grass; having lots of fun

Allie also had fun at her classmate, MM's 2nd birthday party.Do I have a picture of the birthday girl? Of course not. But, we had fun and discovered a wonderful park we didn't know about. Happy Belated birthday MM! We have also really enjoyed going to birthday parties. That is one of the hidden joys about being a parent. Unfortunately, another hidden - not-so-joy is when your child gets sick and can't go to the party. We missed several this year and were pretty sad about it.

That's it for now... more April, May, June and July pictures coming up soon.

Possible Career?

2010-07-11T22:20:00.004-05:00

The little lady in her happy little kitchen.

Allie got a surprise this weekend when we remodeled her play area and she got a new kitchen! (Yes, Mom is jealous as you know I have been needing a new kitchen for a while now). Allie really seemed to enjoy it. Jumped right in to get milk and juice for her baby doll and quickly got the hang of stirring all the "food" and opening all the doors. Next morning, Allie woke right up and went in to begin preparing breakfast. I think this could be a win-win situation if she decides she loves to cook.

By the way... did you notice Allie "standing"? Yes... we are SO close. She is currently only slightly leaning on anything that will allow her to do so and near standing. We also have some new foot braces that help give her stability and despite having them on most of the weekend, I somehow managed to get pictures of her not wearing them. I'll do another post explaining and displaying our new "boots". The pretty dress is also a new gift from Aunt Maureen... it fits perfectly as you can tell from this trying on session. We are going to get all dolled up and wear it and the other one. And... from a play session on our scale, we think Lil Bit may be right at the 20 pound mark!

No Help Needed

2010-07-01T06:56:00.011-05:00

No "Help" necessary, Little Allie.

You are on your way to being the next monkey... oh wait... I mean, little girl who climbs and slides and swings from it all. You seem to have no fear and very rarely run out of energy. I'm excited you will be walking soon, but honestly... I'm more than a bit nervous, too. I know our lives are going to change quite a bit. Not to mention poor little Nicky - her puppy dog- he has no clue what is about to happen.

Allie loves the table we've placed in the living room for her. We were in the process of finding the right table for her to do her puzzles and read books and color and all those fun things when it occurred to us, the "outside" table can work inside until I can decide which table is the best for her. She loves it. The first week we had it inside, she couldn't sit down by herself or get off of it, but she enjoyed sitting at it for snacking, movie watching and reading books. By the end of the week, she had mastered it and would climb up to the bench to sit down, get up, sit down, get up, and would continue doing this for a while. Then, within the next week, she discovered how to climb on top and back down over and over again. She knows we will tell her to get down, so she crouches down when she hears us start to say ... "Allie...." soon she will hear

"Allison Bailey Lovell! Please get down from there!"

Just wanted to give you a few pictures of our little monkey as she climbs around.

Oh and yes! The question of "what do you see in the last video" was answered correctly by Debbie - Kristi's Mom. Allie has come so far in her pretending that we are completely impressed. Especially since I rarely cook and almost never lick the shovel ;-). But, the other thing that really impressed me was her 2 handed control. We have worked on this for months and months. She has been getting better, but this evening as I sat down to play with her it hit me how much control she now demonstrates and used both hands like a pro. For all you with typical children, you might not even have noticed this passing skill. But, after working on it with Patti, her wonderful OT, for such a long time... it is very major and I'm very proud of our little girl.

Good night everyone, signs Allie... It is time for "Bed".

Have a wonderful 4th of July weekend. I'll try to post at least once this weekend!

Progress in Fast Forward

2010-06-25T21:37:00.014-05:00

Well, we have had an exciting and amazing week. First, I'm sure all of you are amazed that this is my 3rd post this week. See... I told you it was an amazing week. But, my actions are the least of the amazement as you all would guess. Allie is the amazing girl. So, what happened this week?

BYE.... BYE.... BYE BYE.... Allie said Bye to her classmates when her Daddy picked her up (he was the only one that heard it, but he knew exactly what she said and that she meant to say it), then, the next day she said BYE again and this time not only Daddy heard it, but her teacher, too. The day after that... she said BYE BYE to her friends' Dad! Clear as day! (Don't feel too left out for those of you that didn't hear it... Mom didn't either).

Then, she was reported to know how to deliberately take off her shoe with her other foot. Now, we all know that I didn't teach her that. All Mom's teach their children to take off their shoes properly and my Mom taught me properly and you KNOW I don't do it this way. ;-). So, Allie either learned this from her Dad or more likely - those rowdy classmates. And, while she used to do this as a baby.. the specific word is "deliberately". That touches on several of Allie's goals.

Let's see... what else... oh yes, she is getting stronger and working on strengthening her tummy muscles so she can soon stand up. The teachers report she is constantly working on standing and today with the use of a bean bag chair, she was able to stand up several times. Nope... we weren't there, but we are thrilled to hear it. At home she is trying to stand as well and crouching a bit more to build up strength. She also loves to try to stand - even if it means falling back down. Her therapist, Melissa, told us that Allie was able to use her walker to walk down the long hallway to the activity center and halfway back. She is going longer distances without having to stop to rest or regain her balance. We are also practicing with Allie standing up against the wall and practicing to take a step. At home, I caught a picture of this, but I'm not sure if she was leaning a bit on the wall or about to use Minnie as a cushion. I caught her right after I took the picture - in fact, I didn't even notice she might have been standing until I saw the picture. Melissa also reported that Allie "does great and loves walking". I love a good report card!!

We were also told that Allie is becoming a bit of a "teachers helper". Allie has seen (via ASL) and heard the teacher tell the other children to "sit down" when it is time to be in their chairs. Allie is helping the teachers out by noticing if someone gets out of their chair when they aren't supposed to and she will point to them and sign "sit down". She is also playing near the other kids more these days and has her own made up sign to remind them when they are playing too closely and she is nervous. Ms. LaKeitha said it basically says, "you go over there, don't hurt me". (Don't worry.. the kids don't mean to hurt her, they are just walking and running and she is little and seems smart enough to know she could get trambled on. What happens alot is that as the kids are playing if they run past Allie and she doesn't have a toy, they will stop and pick one up, give it to her and continue their 2 year old run around the room game.

And... this week, she was pulling at her ear a bit. After asking her several times if her ear hurt... she eventually told me that yes, her ear hurt by signing it . yippee! (No, I'm not glad she is hurt, but very happy she can tell us she is hurt.) We still have a long way to go as communication is a challenge for us. She knows a lot of signs (150-200), and sometimes uses them as you'd expect - like "more cracker", "I'm thirsty", "movie time/ can I watch Signing Time", "play", "outside", etc. for things she wants or needs. But, there are a lot of times when she seems to be recalling the sign or song in her head and then does the signs almost as if she is rambling or talking to herself. I can also ask her things, like... do you see a tree (or car, cat, dog, Daddy, etc) and she will answer with the sign. She is also increasing her Yes and No responses (to our many questions - Are you hungry? Are you sleepy? Did you potty?) We do plan to work on this more so that we are all communicating a little more accurately. We also have to get her signs a little more specific or accurate. While we understand what she is saying, others need to understand and as we learn more words, we have found out there are so many similar signs, so being specific and accurate will be helpful.

And other exciting thing you can see in this video... watch closely and tell me if you can see what is such a big deal....

Thanks for stopping in. Sorry for the long delays. I will really try to update more often, although probably the updates may not have as much "story" (a/k/a "rambling") to it. (Did I just hear a big cheer or was that silence because all anyone looks at is the pictures anyway?) Hey... it all works for me. I actually find I'm more of a blog picture looker, too.

Have a wonderful day!

The Sleeping Beauty Myth

2010-06-21T21:43:00.008-05:00

The part about the kiss from Prince Charming is true

And if your Prince Charming is really Daddy Prince Charming- the little girl will be very happy and giddy...

But, the part...

About the princess sleeping...

Doesn't seem accurate to me...

It seems like ....

A true Sleeping Beauty..

really only glances in the mirror ...

and pauses occasionally to catch her breath....

We had another fun night of make believe as Allie dressed up as Snow White. Doesn't seem like these costumes will fit for Halloween... if you are in need of a Snow White or Tinkerbell costume size 12-18 months (I think they actually run small); let me know soon. Allie had so much fun being her silly, happy, self.

Wow! Two updates in a row... I may need a month break. :-)

Happy Father's Day!

2010-06-20T23:28:00.008-05:00

Hello everyone! I can't believe it has been a month since I've updated this blog. I'm going to have to really work harder at keeping pictures uploaded for you. So, tonight, I decided to just jump out here for a moment. First of all, let me say Happy Father's Day to MY Dad and Allie's Grandpa. We love you and wish we could have spent the day with you.

And, of course, Happy Daddy's Day to Allie's Daddy - a/k/a The Best Daddy in the world. Allie is truly a Daddy's girl. She loves to sign Daddy and she says DaDa. She gets so excited when she sees him and he is the same with her. It is a very sweet and cute relationship!

This weekend we did what we typically do on weekends, grab some fun when we can, run errands (only because it seems we have to) and just hang out as a family. We enjoy this time the most. Here are some pictures of Allie from this weekend. I'll do my best to go back and upload some pictures that you missed during the last month. But, for now, I figured any picture is better than none, and more current pictures are probably preferred.

Also, the Tinkerbell you see is really Allie (surprise, right?). After her bath tonight, she found the costume I had placed on her bed in one of my many attempts to reorganize her room. I had bought it right after last Halloween and was hoping it might fit for this Halloween. It fits perfectly now and she played in it and had fun. So, we took pictures and just had a good time. One of her favorite things to do is to stand on the recliner (everyone let's their kids do this, right?) and I count, One... Two... Three and then Go and she slides down it. If I don't sign and say Go, she won't go. It is a game and she likes to go in order. So, you will see her trying to count and tell me to go (to sign "go", use both of your pointers and point in the direction where you want to go).

Have a wonderful week and thanks for sticking with me as I slack on the blog!

Love and kisses from Allie and her family.

P.S. Happy Father's Day to ALL the Daddies out there.

You grow, girl!

2010-05-19T21:57:00.007-05:00

Thanks, Nurse Cyndi!

Clearly, some of the food I eat actually gets
into my tummy!

Look! I have a belly now!!!!

You all know we have struggled with weight gain. It seems like

as we start to gain, we get a virus or a cold or something that

causes the scales to go back down. Today we weighed in at

19 pounds at school - which, is often slightly higher than

the doc's office, but the highest weight we have had so far.

So... we are celebrating!

Oh... and watch out.. your "Lil' Allie" is close to walking...

I'll try to get you a video, but she will be walking

before you know it... Go, Allie... Go! (after you eat some more).

Happy Mother's Day!

2010-05-11T07:09:00.004-05:00

We had a very nice Mother's Day - and hope all of you did as well. Being a Mother to Allie is the best job in the whole world. She makes being a Mom very easy and so rewarding!

I love you, Allie!

Mommy

A Busy Month of April

2010-04-30T21:27:00.009-05:00

Hi there! Wow! April has been a busy month! What have I been doing? Let me think about it. Well... at school, we've been very busy. We've learned about weather and bugs and neat things called Transportation - trains, planes and cars, too. In fact, I saw a train recently and held up my arm to say choo choo! I also saw airplanes when Daddy went to the airport. In fact, I saw the Military Jets leave the airport to go to the races to fly over them! I clapped! They were so neat!!

At school, Mommy and I took a fun picture, I had music time, which I love and while Mommy was watching, I figured out if I drop my musical instrument one of my many friends will jump up and get it for me. I did it several times (on purpose...shhhh).

We had pajama day and I was so excited about it! Mommy said we all looked so cute in our PJs. It was fun to wear PJs all day long!

I've also gotten really good at riding my bikes. Mommy surprised me at school and this was how I looked when I saw her - surprised! I got to see my Great Grandmother and she gave me a dolly called "Baby Allie". I have a diaper bag, food, clothes and even a diaper for her. I can take care of her really good and pat her back to put her to sleep. Sometimes, she likes it when I throw her on her head. Mommy says she cries, but I don't think so.

I was sick a lot this month. Maybe I have something called Allergies? Daddy said the Pollen was very bad again this year and it caused me to sneeze and weeze and my eyes were yucky and my nose was yucky and I felt horrible. Even caused my ear to bleed and get infected. Mommy hides my medicine in my food. I act like I don't know she is doing it, but I know. It's okay, I'm feeling better now anyway.

Mommy and I went on a mini-vacation to scrapbook. Although, I don't think she scrapbooked while I was there. She had to take care of me because my nose was yucky and I didn't want to rest. I did get to play with a little girl my same age - Rachel. She was fun and liked my toys that I brought. Then, Ms. Melissa took me home - I got to watch DVDs all the way home and eat cookies and crackers. She even wiped my nose for me. Then, I hung out with Daddy, met my Uncle Barry, saw Great Grandmother again and missed Mommy terribly (she is typing, so I can't help but let her put this in).

Then, when Daddy was out of town, Mommy and I had girl time. We didn't have a lot of time because she said Work and School got in the way, but it was okay. We had fun at night and giggled a lot. Nicky played with us, too.

I'm pulling up to everything these days. I love to try to climb on the bed, the couch, the chairs, Nicky, Mommy, Daddy, you name it. I love using my walker and am really good at it. Mommy and Daddy can hold my hands and help me walk to all the places I want to go. It is so much fun! I'll be doing it by myself in no time!

Oh... we also went to the zoo twice - once on Mommy's birthday. She said she will talk about that at another time. Daddy also started a new job and we got to meet a lot of people he works with when we went to the zoo. They all said I was cute and precious. I think Mommy loves to hear that.

It was a fun month, but boy are we tired! We hope your month was great.

We love you!

I can ride a bike!

Can you see me tickling myself?

I almost walked right out of my pants!

My Turn

2010-04-08T20:57:00.009-05:00

So, if your friends climbed on the table, would you? Apparently Allie says "Yes, I would and Yes, I did!". After watching them for months get caught climbing on the table; Allie finally did it, too. The teachers just had to grab a picture for me (thank you!!)

Allie is doing wonderfully at school. According to her teacher, Ms. LaKeitha, her table manners are wonderful. She is clearing her plate (and not throwing it on the floor like she does for us) and asking for more, too. She has a new place mat that helps her ask for what she wants and gives her a place to set her drink (unlike at home where Throwing is the method of choice). She is doing awesome! Today, Ms. LaKeitha put a few extra crackers on Allie's placemat in the "More" section. A little friend tried to come help himself to the tasty treat. I was told that Allie covered up her crackers by patting them and then signed "No" and "More" to her friend. I think she didn't feel like sharing today.

Way to go, Allie, tell it like it is.

(I promise - we will work on sharing, but she is "talking" and eating, so I must celebrate!)

Allie is pulling up to stand everywhere. All over the house and all over the classroom and out on the playground as well. When I dropped her off at school today, I snapped a few pictures of her standing next to the bookshelf. She was so proud of herself and it was clear she was showing off.

Allie's teachers grabbed these cute pictures of her and her friends playing with their hard hats. School is so much fun... and Allie seems to have a lot of friends. When we drop her off we hear how a lot of her classmates - current and previous "talk" about Allie at home. When we get to the classroom we hear "awwiee....awwieee". It is so cute!!

Easter Update

2010-04-04T13:55:00.004-05:00

News Flash.... Allie ATE Chocolate!

Yes, she ate a couple M&M's. She made faces like it was "yucky", but then proceeded to continue to try to eat what she spit out. As most of you know, Allie's Mom (me) is a certifiable Choco-holic. Been that way since birth. For Allie, it is going to be an acquired taste and hopefully she never gets the hang of it like I did (for her sake). But, it was fun to watch her eat the candy. And... since candy of any kind doesn't really thrill her yet, what was in her eggs that we hid for her? Crackers and Cookies - that she proceeded to share with her dog-brother, Nicky. She is a very sharing little girl.

Here is Allie in her Easter Sunday Finest:

Have a wonderful Easter!

Happy Easter

2010-04-04T00:41:00.008-05:00

Dear Family & Friends,

Hi, this is Allie. I really hope no one forces you to sit on the big bunny's lap. It is SCARY! I think I didn't know enough last year and the year before, but this year.... I know a whole lot more and I didn't want to sit there - not by myself, not in a chair, not on the ground, not on Mommy as Mommy sat on the bunny. I liked to be with Daddy or Mommy looking at the Bunny. I even learned to sign bunny and it was fun, until I had to sit there. So, I'm sorry you don't get a smiling picture of me with the Easter Bunny, but I was in no mood to be there. I was scared!

I did get to dye eggs at school and on Saturday with my neighbors, Kaylee and her Mom. It was a lot of fun. Plus, we played outside and went for a walk, too. Mommy is very happy that spring is here and hopes I won't be so sick anymore. I'm celebrating by trying to get a new tooth - at least that is what Mommy thinks is happening. Never a dull moment she says.

We hope you have a great Easter! We love you all!

Allie B. Lovell

I Can Slide - All By Myself (Almost)

2010-03-30T19:22:00.007-05:00

Okay, so Mommy had to put me on top of the slide, but I held on and pushed off and I loved it! Mommy taught me to "Wait, Wait, Wait" until she got ready to take pictures and catch me at the bottom. It was so much fun. I wasn't scared on any slide at all! I can't wait to climb up the stairs and up the slide like the big kids did and do it on my own!!! Here are some pictures of our first real day at the park this year!

I want to do it, but my legs just won't do it yet.

This is me signing "AGAIN" or more acurately,

"Mommy, I want to do this again, I'm serious.

I want to do it again... now"

(Mommy says:

She is very determined and knows what she wants)

SO MUCH FUN!!!

There is so much to look at at the park!

Oh... before we went to the park we saw my friend Victoria play her first ballgame. It was fun, I watched about 2 seconds of the game and waved to everyone! I think when I'm older I may play, too. And, Victoria hit the ball, too!

Nascar Contest Update

2010-03-28T14:43:00.004-05:00

Hello everyone! I first want to thank you all so much for taking the time to vote for Amazing Allie. We had a fantastic ride with the contest. Our voting closed at 1,449 votes! This was wonderful for us - our goal was to raise awareness with every vote - and we did it! I was so touched by the response we got from everyone - through this blog, through family members (Thanks, Dad!), from coworkers, too. In fact, in Facebook, so many of my friends and friends of friends posted it as their status and votes came in from everywhere and very quickly! I really felt Allie's ability to reach out to so many people and cause action to happen. Although, we did not place in the top 10, which means, we won't win, we raised awareness for Down syndrome - and that is what matters most. And, now, I've found we can help raise MORE awareness!

http://www.sponsafier.com/#/gallery/view/143758

There is another family with their own amazing child, Niki. Niki has Down syndrome and must truly be amazing, too, because Niki has 10,766 votes and is currently in 15th position! There are only 2 days left to vote. Niki's Grandmother has contacted me and knows I understand the importance of raising awareness. I'd like to personally ask each of Allie's fans to please take a moment and vote for Niki's car. You can vote once a day from each PC and each cell phone with Internet connection you have access to. Will you please help us? Niki could really, truly get into the top 10 if we spread the news quick enough.

What happens if Niki does get into the top 10? Starting April 1st, there will be 15 days of voting on only the top 10 cars. So, we'd need your help again, but you would know that your vote could cause Niki's car to win and thus an actual car would be made and driven as the pace car at the race in May. NASCAR is huge these days with millions of viewers world wide. Please help us in this very possible chance to spread the word about Down syndrome to millions of people.

Thanks and please - pass along this link for all your friends to see. I'll post an update April 1st to let you all know what happens.

Allie says thanks for helping her new friend, Niki.

Happy St. Patty's Day to Grandpa and All of You

2010-03-17T11:06:00.007-05:00

Okay, my Dad, Allie's Grandpa is the biggest Irish person I know. So, today, we took a few fun pictures and made a little video to wish him a wonderful St. Patty's Day. We love you, Grandpa. We hope everyone has the luck of the Irish with them today and everyday!

Did you catch it sounded like she tried to say Grandpa when she saw the picture? She is coming along!

We haven't been able to update you lately, we've been under the weather as you probably all saw from a recent post and we've been trying to raise awareness for Down syndrome in big ways. I'd say it is working, despite the fact we only need about 9,000 more votes to win. We are raising awareness just by having people look at the car and spread the word about Allie, so I'd say we met our goal.

Allie got a nice St. Patty's Day card from Grandpa and Granma and it came with a nice new $1 bill - that we promptly put in her bank. I'm not sure she was happy about that as she was enjoying playing with it. But, it is safe and sound now. We were sick the day we got the card, so it was a fun new thing to look at and we've continued to read it multiple times like it is a book. We are still trying to recover from this "fever virus" we have. Seems that is the most common thing for Allie to get. It could be worse as most of the kids in her class have recently had Strep Throat. But, it is still a bit exhausting for her and of course she doesn't eat as well when she is sick, so she has lost a little and is back to 16.8 pounds. Hopefully we can get this immune system of hers up a notch or two over the spring and summer

On the other side of things, I must repeat what you all already know - we believe in Sign Language! Last night, Allie's temp spiked again to 103 at about 3am. She was not happy and it was hard to help her get comfortable. At one point she sat up straight, looked at me and signed "Apple". I tried to tell her that it wasn't a good idea to eat right now, but she was so determined. She continued to sign "eat", "apple", "cracker", "drink", and "thirsty". I had been giving her small amounts of water, but would never have thought to give a sick child food in the middle of the night with a high temp. Because she was so adamant, we went to the kitchen and had an applesauce and cracker feast. She devoured it and it seemed to help her a lot. Without sign language, we probably would have had a temper tantrum on our hands all in the wee hours of the morning and with a high temp - would NOT have been fun. So, teaching children to sign really does work. (www.signingtime.com) I guess now is as good as a time as ever to also say that research has shown that teaching babies to sign does not delay language or cause them to not want to talk. In fact, it actually works the opposite way and encourages language skills. With Down syndrome babies, low muscle tone is often a factor. Learning to talk uses a lot of muscles and coordination, so we knew Allie would talk later than other babies. Then, add in her hearing loss and we knew there could be additional delays. So, it has worked wonderful for us and I'm confident it is not causing her to "not" want to talk. She is trying and making a lot more sounds these days. Plus, she is learning words and can read them, so we are in a win -win situation in my opinion.

Cheers to you from Allie and Family!

(Tim wishes you all the best, too, he is avoiding this stay at home sick day - he had the last full week of sick time - about 2 weeks ago)

A Glance Back at Our Baby:

2008 - 4 months 2009- 16 months old

2010-03-06T01:04:00.002-06:00

http://www.sponsafier.com/share/136757

Please click the above link once a day between now and March 15th to help us raise awareness for Down Syndrome and our Amazing Allie. This is a contest that Toyota is putting on. Whoever wins - and those in the top 10 - will get lots of recognition. The winner will have an actual car at the 2010 Nascar Sprint All-Star Race. And, we will get to go and be there as well.

What a great opportunity to tell Millions of people about Down Syndrome!

But, we need your votes. Due to some difficulty in getting the car "approved" during inspection, we lost several days of voting time. All cars have 15 days of voting time. But, since our car just got approved, there are only 10 days of voting time left. So, if you don't mind, please vote today and everyday and ask all your friends, family and coworkers to vote as well. The great part about it is there is no login or set up or anything. Click the above link, then once you can see the car (it is yellow and blue with DS on it and Allie's pictures, too) click VOTE. You can also click the 3D button if you want to get a good view of all sides of the car.

Thank you for your votes. We need them!

Sincerely,

The Design Team

MAMA!

2010-03-06T00:16:00.003-06:00

Yes! I heard it LOUD and CLEAR. Here is the scenario - Allie and I in her room, chatting away about diapers and pajamas when she looks at me and clearly says MAMA! So, of course, me as the diligent and ecstatic Mama, tries to get her to repeat it. What does she do, gives me a sly grin and signs Mama. She signs it over and over and over for me. I think she has a sense of humor - or so she thinks. (haha)

As you might guess, I was fine with it only coming out once. I believe she knew what she said and what it meant and she will say it again when she is good and ready. Until then, when I ask her to say Mama for me (pretty please with sugar on top), I get that silly grin and the Mama sign -rather enthusiastically. In fact, it is becoming similar to the Grandma sign - hmmmmm...

Then, tonight after dinner as I'm cleaning up her face (you've seen the pictures of her enjoying food, right?), I say ... "say, Mama, Allie". She signs Mama, then seems to change her mind and signs and SAYS "Dada!". And, you know it... she had that silly little sly grin. She may be too dang smart for my own good.

We did get a good laugh out of it and she was punished with lots of tickles and giggles. I know... torture, huh?

Signed, the now official... Mama

(These pictures do give you an idea of how active she is don't they? Not to mention, you can kindof see that gleam in her eye that says "she is up to something!"

Peace to all!

Under The Weather

2010-03-03T21:15:00.004-06:00

Well, with a winter like we've had, who can blame Allie for catching a bug, right? Well, she got one. A nasty tummy bug. When we picked her up from school last Friday evening, she wasn't looking so hot and had gotten sick. By the time we got home, her temp had rose to 102. We had a long night - as many of you parents out there can probably recall one of your own. Couldn't keep nothing down, including her temperature. She got up to about 104 at some point. By morning, I foolishly thought we might be past it. I had slept in her room to watch her and give her fluids every chance I could get. Around 8AM (after an answered prayer I made at 5 that she would sleep a solid 3 hours), she greeted me with all smiles and giggles. It lasted about an hour - yep... even she fooled me into giving her milk. Which, by the way, did not remain with her. The fever returned and she was not in good shape.

We headed to the pediatrician, who graciously ran every test he could think of and we discovered she had a tummy bug (luckily no flu or anything worse!). So, we went home and spent the next several days watching her sleep and wondering how she could sleep so much. She did improve, but then got worse, then got slightly better, but added a nasty cough and a stuffy, yucky nose. She has been out of school all week to give her a chance to get better. She will be out tomorrow, too, to give all those other kids a chance to either get it and go home or get better, too. :-) She is doing much better, but we had a very pitiful baby on our hands. And we would like to avoid this again, it was no fun for anyone, but mostly no fun for her. So very sad to watch her hurt like she did.

While being sick, Allie did get to watch a lot of her DVDs, we set her up in the living room during the day on a spare crib mattress to allow her to be somewhere other than her room and for us to watch her. It was neat to see her like a big grown up girl, all propped up in front of the TV. She is really growing too fast for me, but it is so much fun to watch.

Tonight we had lots of fun, she giggled and played and was back to her old self again, she seems to really be on the road to recovery. She misses school, but has had lots of fun with Daddy who has been home with her. It is adorable how Allie loves to go to him. She waves, blows kisses and then leans and reaches for him (yes, she does this to me, too, but I love to watch her with him). Nothing like a Daddy and daughter. I need to grab a sweet picture of the two of them. It has been awhile with her feeling so puny. (This picture of her is from tonight, see.... she has her appetite back and enjoying some milk).

Have a great March everyone!

17 to 18 in 16

2010-02-23T21:14:00.008-06:00

Need help with the title of this entry? Let's spell it out a bit....

17 pounds to 18 pounds in just 16 DAYS!!!

That is right! Allie has gained a pound
since her surgery just 16 days ago!

Also, I discovered that she is quite different at home in regards to the scale. We stumbled on our "old" baby scale the other day and when I pulled it out, she was so interested in sitting on it like a big girl. The nurses at the doctor's office would be shocked at the site of no tears and no fussiness when getting weighed. Allie had fun playing with the scale and weighed 17 pounds - just as she did the day of surgery. Then, after us noticing that Allie is getting heavier and eating better, we pulled it back out and yes! She is now 18 pounds. It really took less than 16 days. We are so impressed and so excited for Allie!

(Note: The picture in purple is from February 12th just days after the surgery. The picture was taken on carpet, so the scale was off a bit, but it was at 17 pounds on hard floors. The picture above in her jammies was from tonight after we double checked our weight! )

Time to go eat our veggies and drink our milk so we can grow big and strong like Allie!

Oh Yes, I'm Hungry!

2010-02-18T20:38:00.006-06:00

Since the surgery just 10 days ago, Allie's appetite has increased tremendously and we are excited about it! Tonight, Allie drank 7 ounces of milk with dinner (remember how 7 ounces used to be a whole day's worth of milk not that long ago??). She ate pears, spaghetti and bread, too. Clearly, she is on the road to gaining weight - I feel it! In fact, when I picked her up today, she looked at me and signed 'chicken'. I said "you want chicken?" She repeated it. Then, I asked, "are you hungry?" She signed 'Eat'. This is a girl that knows what she wants. But, no... we don't have chicken every night - yet.

And despite the appearances, she actually ate a lot more than she is wearing in this picture.

happy eating everyone!

Jump, Jump, Jump

2010-02-15T15:51:00.011-06:00

Wow! This is so much fun!!!

On Valentine's Day, we went to Pump It Up for a birthday party for one of Allie's classmates, Elliott P. I knew Allie would have fun because she loves to jump and bounce. I wasn't sure how she would do, though with all the kids running and jumping around her. But, we ended up seeing a lot of our classmates (okay, some have moved onto other rooms, but I'm refusing to admit it) and they all are very good with Allie. She didn't get run over at all!

For those of you that don't know much about this type of entertainment, let me just say it was so much fun for the kids and their parents! Basically, we were in a large room with the inflatable bounce houses and large slides. I first took Allie into one of the bounce houses that wasn't occupied yet to see how she would do. Oh my goodness... she loved it. Her and I bounced around and then despite her signing "again, again, again", we climbed out of it and headed to the big slide - we were officially ready to do it. We climbed to the top, Allie clapped and we slid down really fast. We were both immediately hooked. Her most used sign of the day was "again". If you've never been to one of these places - you need to go. Lots of fun and plenty of laughs!

The three of us really had a fun time and it was fun to see and talk to many of the parents that we've known while being at Hand in Hand. Many of their children I don't see much anymore as we are in different classes.

I do have to point out that while we all had fun, there was a moment of embarrassment for me. In the second room we went to, there was a bit of a "maze" type bouncy thing that sounded like fun. I wasn't sure if I should take Allie in for fear of not being able to do it with her. But, then was encouraged by Tim to just try it and I decided, what the heck, what could go wrong? Well, we climbed in, went down a little slide and then through a little maze to get to the middle. In the middle there was a large hill to climb complete with foot holds and rope to use to climb up. Great if you plan to climb with two hands. But, since I was holding Allie, that wasn't possible. I was encouraged to "just climb, it's easy" by a cute 4 year old girl. She also told me that if I continued on (under, over, etc.) there was another hill, but no foothold or ropes, so I never even went that way. I confidently went back the way I came - through, under and around to get to the bottom of the small slide which I then realized was too big to climb back up. So, I was a bit stranded for a moment and could see Tim way at the other end waiting for me, but I couldn't get there and he couldn't see me. I sent my cute little 4 year old informant friend to get help and after two attempts she found Tim (the only man with an arm brace) and I handed Allie over the tall wall and I continued on with slight frustration. All of this was fine as no one but Tim, Allie, the 4 year old and I knew I had been stuck anyway. Until I got to the top of the wall. I see all the kids at the bottom of the slide posing for pictures. I had this image of me sliding down the slide and knocking into a few of them - not a pretty image. I managed to make it down the slide only to be in the middle of all the party goers with the proud parents all snapping pictures (no children were knocked over by me). I'm sure someone will scrapbook the "lunatic Mommy" who went into the bounce house without her daughter while everyone else is trying to organize a group photo.

I'm hoping someone found it entertaining. I saw the hilarity, but I'm probably the only one. Allie did make it in time for the group photo and all was well. I'm so ready to go back and bounce and climb some more!

Happy Birthday, Elliott -we had fun at your 2nd birthday party! Thank you for inviting us! (sorry... I don't have a picture of the birthday boy. It is hard to see him in my group picture, too. These 2 year old children move really fast!)

I just had to throw this video in. This was our "at-home" version of Pump It Up before we ever went to it. Something tells me that this just won't do for Allie anymore now that she has had a taste of the luxury bouncy house.

Happy Valentine's Day!

2010-02-14T01:04:00.000-06:00

Allie hopes you all have a day filled with Love and Happiness! She is also very thankful for the wonderful cards and gifts from all of you. This adorable Frog (who we've named Hopkins) is from my dear cousins Phyllis and Russell. This sweet teddy bear is from Aunt Maureen. Thank you so much for thinking of me and sending me so many cards and greetings everyone!

I love you all!

Snow in Town

2010-02-12T21:01:00.006-06:00

Well, we got the snow I wanted - well, not as much as I wanted. Still lots of mud on the ground, but hey... it was snow (wet snow) and Allie knew right away what it was. She signed "snow" when we showed it to her from the doorway. Then, we went outside to enjoy it and snap only a couple pictures. I wish we took some of the woods behind our house as it was really pretty, but we just didn't do it. I guess that means we need more snow to arrive - and I'd prefer it be a little more for Allie's sake.

Allie is feeling wonderful and as rambunctious as ever tonight!

Yep, Folks, She is Amazing!

2010-02-11T22:52:00.008-06:00

As you all know, Monday was surgery day and I was a bit nervous. We were scheduled to do several things - put in Ear Tubes #4, Unclog Tear Ducts, remove Adenoids and remove Tonsils. To understand how and why we choose to do all of these things at the same time you can read this blog entry.

So, how did it go, you ask? The title of this entry lets you know. Allie - again - amazes us. We got to the hospital at 6am and by 8am she was in surgery. I did hint to the nurse walking Allie to the operating room that Allie loves music. I saw Allie start getting a little sad (or scared?) that I wasn't going with her and the lovely nurse began singing to her. Allie was okay after that and I might have seen a tiny bit of dancing in the dancing girls' body. By 9am, she was in the recovery room. We got to see her around 10am and she was sleeping a little bit and when she saw us she got a bit emotional and wanted to be held, but was fine as soon as she got a big hug from both of us. She then drank a whole bunch of water and by the time we took her to her room, they were able to stop her IV because she drank so much!

Once we got to her room, she was so exhausted, but as is Allie's fashion - she refused sleep. So, we sat for a while and tried to lull her to sleep, then I decided after her begging me with her signs, we popped in her favorite DVD. Then, we would rock her until she was asleep, set her in her crib only for her to sit back up and be wide awake (we have a witness to this crazy Allie-Phenomenon, right Melissa?) Sometime after this "game", she finally fell asleep and did wonderfully all night. She did wake up a few times and we had some time together. She even got to see Granny and Paw Paw in Florida from our hospital room via our nifty webcam! That was so nice (Thanks, Maureen for the cool gift and thanks to Melissa for letting us use your laptop - it worked wonderfully!).

I did get a bit of a scare when Allie's monitor went off in the middle of the night - 3:30 to be exact. Now, you all know we have gotten used to the monitors, so after I jumped out of bed and got to Allie's side, my mind joined me and I realized that the probe on Allie had probably just come off. But, when I saw it hadn't and the monitor kept beeping (loudly and consistently) and Allie didn't budge despite my attempts, I was scared. The nurse came in right as the beeping stopped and Allie moved. But, that was the longest and scariest seconds of my life. I think Allie was in such a deep sleep and that was why she didn't move. But, the nurse "didn't know what was wrong" and even asked if Allie had Sleep Apnea - not that she thought that was what happened, but she didn't know. You know I was up for a bit after that event. Anyway, no one can tell me why the monitors went off. In fact, the doctor said most of the time it is a faulty machine - so comforting, isn't it? I'm still not sure why we had to stay overnight because I was the only one that watched Allie at all anyway. But, regardless, we made it through the night and in the morning, Allie woke up giddy and playful as ever.

Allie was trying to climb out of the crib - all while signing "no, no, no" to me and if I went to one side of the crib (really, it looked like a cage to quote her Paw Paw), she would go to the other, smile at me over her shoulder and sign "no". I was so very thankful when we got our release papers since she was so ready to play!

Since coming home, my biggest concern was how to get her medicine in her. At the hospital it would take two of us to literally pin her down in what simply resembled a wrestling hold (my Uncles would be so proud of me) and we'd get the majority in. She only pinched me once during this event, too. Clearly it was my fault when I pinned her arm behind me. (Note: no hate mail.... it wasn't really as dramatic as I'm making it out...well, maybe it was... but she did get lots of hugs and kisses after it was over). Anyway, Allie has even surprised me in the whole medicine aspect of this week. She is getting more used to the eye drops and she was already a pro at the Ear drops. She isn't showing much pain or discomfort, but she has been seen chewing on and sucking down the Tylenol I offer her (not every time, but hey... a few times is better than nothing). We are still fighting the antibiotic, but thanks to some flavor added and my relentless refusal to give up on thinking of new ways to give it to her, (tonight, it was hidden deeply in her icy cold milk) I think we might make it.

While at home, Allie has been wonderful. She has taken lots of naps and our most serious event was her fingers. You need more information, don't you? Allie had never taken to a pacifier and always sucks on her left hand, first two fingers. We are okay with this. It lets her calm herself when she needs it and it lets us know if she is uncomfortable or scared or insecure with a situation. But, after these type of events we worry because she sucks on these fingers so much and to the point they are completely white. Which is why we had to pull out the teether again. It worked and gave the fingers a break for a little bit. Other than that and her wanting to just be hugged and snuggled a lot - life is rough, huh? - she has done great!

We aren't expected to see results from this surgery right away, but given we are talking about Amazing Allie, I'm thinking she is already showing us that things have improved. She hasn't gotten sick since coming home, she is sleeping much more deeply and not tossing and turning like she did before and tonight, Allie fell asleep soundly in my arms and didn't toss and turn at all. I'm thinking this surgery was a success!

Thanks also to all of you for your prayers and well wishes. We felt them and they kept Allie safe and recovering wonderfully.

We are expecting snow tomorrow in Birmingham and I'm hoping we actually get some and I can show it to Allie. Last time we ran outside and I tried to show her a few flurries.... it was rather hard to get her to see what I was trying to show her with only literally a few snowflakes in the air. I hope to have Snow Pictures to show you soon!