"I love being at home" says Allie. Lots of Winnie the Pooh, lots of hugging and loving. Lots of that puppy dog, lots of Mommy and Daddy. This is just great! However, I miss my nurses at the NICU. Mommy says that when people stop being so sick with something called the flu or those nasty colds then I can visit and give my first friends some hugs!
As all of you know, Allie was born 6 weeks early and weighed only 2 pounds
and 5 ounces. Everything was exhausting to this little girl. Eating from a bottle was not even attempted until she was several weeks old. Tube feeding was the only way to get food into her tiny belly and keep her growing. Being held was limited to minutes per day to not waste the precious calories she needed to grow big and strong. I know for a fact that the nurses in the NICU (Ne
onatal Intensive Care Unit) are hand picked by God to welcome and care for these little babies. Many are in need more than Allie and some less than Allie. Not only are the babies in need of extra special care and attention, but their new Mommy's and Daddy's also need extra special care and attention. These nurses know just how to give it. Not only were the NICU nurses so wonderful, but my nurses and doctors were terrific. They seemed to understand how hard it was to not have my baby with me, they asked about her, they visited her in the NICU and even left us notes to say they had stopped by and enjoyed seeing Allie. They took such wonderful care of me. The experience was wonderful and I'm so lucky to have had my baby at Shelby Baptist. (And while I'm on the subject of "me", the nurses and staff in my doctor's office are awesome!! They got used to seeing me regularly during this pregnancy and they made things so comfortable and welcoming. Soon I'll bring Allie to see you, too!)
It is a unique person that can nurse a tiny newborn to health while also encouraging the new scared and uncertain parents. It is a different world to be thrust into when all the new parents around you are comfy in their rooms with their babies by their sides and you have to go to another section of the hosptial - past all the rooms with babies and their parents - to visit your baby in a tiny plastic box with scary tubes, monitors and lots of beeping. But, these NICU nurses seem to understand just how these parents feel and their compassion is obvious. The seem to know to give that extra smile, that extra word of encouragement, that extra compliment about the growing baby and sometime the extra space to allow the parents to just be with their babies - love, hope, prayers, fears and all.
So much was learned and the days in the NICU - while I wouldn't want to do it again - were invaluable. It was a very difficult time and frustrating time. But, many happy memories of the love and care given in the NICU will remain with us. After all, we had our baby girl and she was thriving and she was growing and being loved even when we couldn't be there with her. The NICU nurses will always have a special place in our hearts.
To all of you at Shelby Baptist Medical Center -
THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS!
THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS!
With love and sincerity,
Tim, Sandy & Allie Lovell
P.S. If you'd rather your picture not be on this blog, please let me know and I'll remove it. You can e-mail me at sandy.lovell@charter.net Also, this is only a few of the many wonderful members of the NICU. Sorry I couldn't post all of your pictures, you are all in our hearts forever.
3 comments:
Ditto all that! The nurses were wonderful! I'm glad we're both finally home where we belong!! :)
Sheila Wilkes
It is very hard to go to that "other" place where your little baby is when all the others mommies are snug in their rooms with their babies. But I have always thought, these little NICU babies are stronger than all the rest!
We miss you all, too! But...we ARE so happy for you. We look forward to when you come back to visit! We love seeing our babies and parents...it is such a reward for the work that we do! Sometimes it doesn't really seem like work at all! Allie looks great, she is so alert and beautiful. Keep up the good work and keep enjoying your little angel.
Love, Linda
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